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Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

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sj - Apr 09, 2025 4:09:28 pm PDT #6676 of 12839
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

ltc just told me that a boy in her class was rating the girls beauty on a scale of 1-5. He needs a girlfriend who’s a 5 and wanted to make sure ltc knew she was only a 3 and that her friend was only a 1. WTF 8 year old boy?!? I am so filled with rage right now.


-t - Apr 09, 2025 4:13:38 pm PDT #6677 of 12839
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, sj!


meara - Apr 09, 2025 4:16:17 pm PDT #6678 of 12839

Damn, that is crazy how early that shit starts sj. I can only imagine what the kid is being taught at home.


Jesse - Apr 09, 2025 4:17:42 pm PDT #6679 of 12839
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

OH HELL NO


sj - Apr 09, 2025 4:21:44 pm PDT #6680 of 12839
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thank you for all reacting that strongly because I wanted to make sure I wasn’t overreacting. I have already sent an email with the specifics to her teacher, who is absolutely lovely, so hopefully the situation will be dealt with.


askye - Apr 09, 2025 4:42:26 pm PDT #6681 of 12839
Thrive to spite them

Oh hell no!! 8 and he's doing that ?? Where are his parents ?? I hope they aren't encouraging any of that


erikaj - Apr 09, 2025 5:59:44 pm PDT #6682 of 12839
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

somebody's cousin is a shitheel.


sj - Apr 09, 2025 6:12:06 pm PDT #6683 of 12839
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

He’s either 8 or 9. They’re in third grade. Technically I’m friends with the mom on FB, but I don’t know her well at all and don’t know how she’d react if I contacted her directly. So I’m going through the teacher.


Laura - Apr 09, 2025 6:13:44 pm PDT #6684 of 12839
Our wings are not tired.

Wow, SJ. I'm also filled with rage. I get that kids can be jerks, but letting the teacher know is appropriate.


Laura - Apr 09, 2025 6:14:45 pm PDT #6685 of 12839
Our wings are not tired.

Agree. The mom would be put on the defensive while the teacher should have more objective experience.