I tell you I have this theory. It goes where, you're the one who's not my sister. Cuz mom adopted you from a shoe box full of baby howler monkeys, and never told you cuz it could hurt your delicate baby feelings.

Dawn ,'Selfless'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Mar 25, 2025 7:27:24 pm PDT #6382 of 6659

Apparently a ton of folks at dancing got Covid last week, so we ended up canceling tonight, lest it spread more. I volunteered to sit outside and let folks know…and then a half hour before it would’ve started, the transformer down the street blew, so we wouldn’t have had power and would’ve had to cancel anyway! Of course now I’m paranoid I’m going to get COVID.


Karl - Mar 25, 2025 7:39:09 pm PDT #6383 of 6659
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Thank heavens, -t. Yes, tomorrow is supposed to be back to seasonal -- mid to high 60s rather than mid to high 80s. That will be a considerable relief.

A friend of mine is in Portland, Maine this week for work, and she got snow on Monday! I was so jealous.


Theodosia - Mar 26, 2025 4:17:27 am PDT #6384 of 6659
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

A couple I know got Covid at a recent convention -- they've held it off for over 5 years now. There should be some kind of consolation prize for that.

I took a 100yo off to a medical appointment yesterday! She was spicy and funny, and new to our residence, she's not sure she wants to be around old people...


JenP - Mar 26, 2025 5:20:35 am PDT #6385 of 6659

Ha, yes! My mom always felt the same way... except she was sure that she didn't.


Laura - Mar 26, 2025 6:51:20 am PDT #6386 of 6659
Our wings are not tired.

When I was a kid, I loved to spend time with old people. I even asked a neighbor, who was maybe 60 at the time, what it was like to be old. Now that I am by any definition old, I still enjoy spending time with old folks, and young folk, and the middle agers too! As long as they aren't negative or grumpy, got no time for that. Although I am a city girl at my core the thing I most enjoy about my summers in Otter Lake is that all socialization includes the entire range of ages. In a tiny community you can't just hang with people your own age. Little kids run around the local bar, and the elders are drinking beer with the teenagers at their bonfire parties.

Clearly, I don't have the stamina I did at 30, but when I spend time with my younger friends I find we laugh and stress over the same things and have more in common than what separates us.


Trudy Booth - Mar 26, 2025 6:51:47 am PDT #6387 of 6659
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

To be fair, this is the nicest crew of attorneys I've ever worked for. Of the 8.5 of them only two are a little precious and they're not anywhere close to the dragons I've dealt with in the past. My 2.5 big dogs are phenomenal women who treat everyone with respect.


Laura - Mar 26, 2025 6:55:19 am PDT #6388 of 6659
Our wings are not tired.

Good to hear, Trudy. It makes such a huge difference to respect the people you work with.


Laura - Mar 26, 2025 7:07:54 am PDT #6389 of 6659
Our wings are not tired.

Sending birthday wishes to Allyson today. Missing her and hoping that the year to come brings all good things.


Trudy Booth - Mar 26, 2025 7:43:57 am PDT #6390 of 6659
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Seems permitting and neglecting pandemics wasn't enough, now he's going to straight-up fucking start them. [link]


brenda m - Mar 26, 2025 8:05:59 am PDT #6391 of 6659
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That’s awesome Trudy.

I got Covid for the first time at New Year’s. Nobody sent me a prize and now I’m kind of salty about that.

My dad made the same comments about “old people”. I take it as kind of an imperfect shorthand for people who are no longer active and engaged with the world (whatever that looks like in their personal circumstances ) or interested in new things.