I would be there right now.

Simon ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Mar 22, 2025 10:03:49 am PDT #6325 of 6869

That is fantastic, sj. Good for ltc!


DavidS - Mar 22, 2025 11:55:17 am PDT #6326 of 6869
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Great job, ltc!

I've been soaking up the fancy hotel life here, and I'm going from a full breakfast to lunch in an hour. So I'll probably have very little at lunch.

But I'll see some Kenyon people there before the service at 3pm. Then out of towners are invited to go to dinner with the family.

Tomorrow is the looser, Celebration of Life/Reception where I'll speak a little about Josh.

Then back very early on Monday morning.


Laura - Mar 22, 2025 1:03:39 pm PDT #6327 of 6869
Our wings are not tired.

David, I hope the warm and comfort of seeing old friends helps balance the sorrow.


Sheryl - Mar 22, 2025 1:39:28 pm PDT #6328 of 6869
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Laura, I wasn't hurt, just embarrassed. I ended up breaking off a few rows from the rack, and scattered earrings all over. Gary got me a new earring rack for Valentine's Day, but it needs to be assembled and he's been really busy lately.

Meanwhile, Mr. S is here for an overnight stay He told us yesterday on the phone that he was going to make a salad for today's lunch, and gave us a list of things to buy for it. He gets here today and decides he wants chicken for lunch. When will he make the salad? I don't know, and it's frustrating that he does stuff like this.


askye - Mar 22, 2025 3:52:02 pm PDT #6329 of 6869
Thrive to spite them

Go ltc!!

So M's cousin has moved back to our couch. He was getting in fights with who ever he was staying with. He keeps forgetting and starting to smoke. which is annoying. The house smells so much better since we banned smoking from the house.

Today I was petting Cheeto and I realized one of his front claws looks like it's torn out. I can't really tell how bad the damage is because he bite me and ran off.

I guess I'll be calling the vet on Monday .


DebetEsse - Mar 22, 2025 4:43:31 pm PDT #6330 of 6869
Woe to the fucking wicked.

I hate SalesForce for entirely other, local reasons.

I am in the process of convincing the baby (not a baby) that he doesn't need to be on The Boob for the entire time from 3AM till wake up about 6. He Disagrees.

Which is to say, I am too tired and too on a phone for a full meara, but I'm vibing hard for everyone


Consuela - Mar 22, 2025 6:06:59 pm PDT #6331 of 6869
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

I stopped by at the Tesla Takedown event in Berkeley today. I wanted to be excited, but it was... so Berkeley. Surrounded by bougie shops (Restoration Hardware, Athleta, Lululemon), 150 or so white folks over 50 chanted and waved signs.

I mean, YAY that there are any protests at all? But I have the sense that at least half of those passing by had no idea what the protest was about, and the fact is that whoever is organizing these hasn't reached out to other communities. There are black folks in Berkeley, but they weren't there.

Signed, spent too much time in downtown Oakland during Occupy.


DavidS - Mar 22, 2025 10:03:47 pm PDT #6332 of 6869
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

David, I hope the warm and comfort of seeing old friends helps balance the sorrow.

Yes, it was great seeing old friends. The ceremony was beautifully done, and really honored who he was as a person. Which is to say a lot of the stories were hilarious.

It hit me hard in ways I hadn't expected, though. Definitely was taking me back to some of the raw grief at JZ's funeral. We'll do one more, less formal, get together tomorrow.

A lot to process.


askye - Mar 23, 2025 12:45:19 pm PDT #6333 of 6869
Thrive to spite them

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Calli - Mar 23, 2025 1:19:32 pm PDT #6334 of 6869
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m in Wisconsin with my niece’s family. They’re lovely. My great niece and nephew are 5 and 3 respectively, and they have so much energy.