I'm so evil and... skanky. And I think I'm kinda gay.

Willow ,'Storyteller'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Mar 14, 2025 9:26:52 am PDT #6166 of 6187
Our wings are not tired.

That sounds reasonable. As they say, follow the doctor's orders. It takes some planning not to use your hands!


meara - Mar 14, 2025 9:32:43 am PDT #6167 of 6187

Yikes Brenda, self throat punch is bad! Save it for the nazis!

And wow, medical system in action Teppy!


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 14, 2025 9:38:45 am PDT #6168 of 6187
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Yow, Brenda! Throat and face are not ideal landing gear!

Steph, I hope everything goes as smoothly as the run-up to the surgery seems to be going.


JenP - Mar 14, 2025 9:49:34 am PDT #6169 of 6187

Yikes Brenda, self throat punch is bad! Save it for the nazis!

Yes, this!

Everyone, be safe out there.


Steph L. - Mar 14, 2025 10:23:22 am PDT #6170 of 6187
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I got my eyebrow microblading touched up yesterday

I'm overdue for: haircut, color, and pedicure. But I'm not scheduling anything until I get the hand surgery scheduled, because getting feeling back in my right hand takes top priority and I will clear my schedule to make it happen as quickly as possible.

Then: haircut, color, and pedicure. (I do my own brow shaping.)


Laura - Mar 14, 2025 10:28:13 am PDT #6171 of 6187
Our wings are not tired.

I have no brows, and my bangs cover what tiny blond bits I do have. My SIL will shape and color them from time to time, but that startles me! I do need to get my hair trimmed. Not sure when I am going to fit that in, and I may end up just trimming my bangs myself instead.


Sophia Brooks - Mar 14, 2025 11:36:39 am PDT #6172 of 6187
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I have no brows, and my bangs cover what tiny blond bits I do have. My SIL will shape and color them from time to time, but that startles me! I do need to get my hair trimmed. Not sure when I am going to fit that in, and I may end up just trimming my bangs myself instead.

I am more on side of TOO MANY BROWS AND THEY ARE TOO LONG. I look like Eugene Levy.

ETA: My glasses mostly cover my TOO MANY BROWS.


Steph L. - Mar 14, 2025 11:41:04 am PDT #6173 of 6187
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Just to hold up my small corner of the making-the-US-a-better-more-inclusive-place-also-fuck-you-current-administration: I am editing yet another transgender health article today, because the AMA is also in the camp of fuck-you-we-publish-what-we-want-and-science-is-real-you-absolute-shitheads.

I don't think I've ever expressed a specific interest in or appreciation for editing the trans articles, but I may give off a vibe of gimme gimme gimme. And/or it's possible I edit the trans articles in a very straightforward and supportive, tactful manner.

It's possible my finest editing experience was an article about transgender patients' preferences when discussing gender in health care settings. It included a table with the demographics of the people who were surveyed for the article, and the table listed, separately, each participant's (1) gender identity, (2) gender expression, and (3) sexual orientation. So you'd get things like — gender identity: "trans butch"; gender expression: "Masc of center and chaotic"; sexual orientation: "Queer with more attraction currently to men." Everything in quotes is exactly what the participants said and exactly what we published. My personal favorites were one individual whose gender identity was "gender nonconforming" and gender expression was "genderfuck femme" (I got to edit and see published a medical article with the word "fuck" in it — personal best for me) and one individual whose gender identity was "genderqueer" and gender expression was "Surfer or ski bro (depending on season) but add makeup and earrings."

I love that we were able to publish, in table form for easy comparison, something showing the differences between gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation, AND that showed the broad range of identities/expressions/orientations that humans have. Absolutely seriously glorious.


Laura - Mar 14, 2025 11:48:14 am PDT #6174 of 6187
Our wings are not tired.

because the AMA is also in the camp of fuck-you-we-publish-what-we-want-and-science-is-real-you-absolute-shitheads.

Years ago I wouldn't have expected this, but in recent years I have applauded their press releases that have been pro-science and common sense.


brenda m - Mar 14, 2025 11:48:37 am PDT #6175 of 6187
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh that is wonderful Steph.