You're talking to Serenity. And, Early... Serenity is very unhappy.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Susan W. - Mar 09, 2025 11:09:59 am PDT #6008 of 6025
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Florida voted to stay on DST years ago, but it was never approved at the federal level.

Washington did the same, and I feel like maybe the entire West Coast? I like DST better, though the first day or two can be rough. I'm starting to come around to thinking that the time change is actually the best option for living this far north. I say I want to keep DST in the winter because that long stretch where it's dark before 5 PM is just so depressing, but if we did it wouldn't be light till after 9 AM, which is arguably worse. But in the summer, if we didn't have DST we'd have 4 AM sunrises in June, but lose the luxury of the post 9 PM midsummer sunsets. Though I guess a morning person might take the opposite view on both points.

I recently read a book called How To Winter which spent a lot of time looking at how Scandinavian countries handle winter, and came away with the insight that I need to stop resenting November-January so much and instead face the Great Dark with mindfulness, radical acceptance, and maybe some personal rituals. Which makes sense, and is probably more healthy than my annual rage, rage against the temporary dying of the light. Not to mention remembering that by global standards Seattle isn't all that extremely north at all. We're actually south of Paris!


P.M. Marc - Mar 09, 2025 11:30:31 am PDT #6009 of 6025
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Places that have attempted to do DST for the whole year have found that it's actually not great on the body. Standard time is a fucking hell of a lot healthier for our circadian rhythms.

I want DST to die a fiery death.

(Speaking of fire...thanks, everyone! The house is basically a skeleton. I'm exhausted. My mother's still on my couch. Those who were here during the Seattle F2F might recall that my house is not large. At all.)


dcp - Mar 09, 2025 11:40:24 am PDT #6010 of 6025
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I want DST to die a fiery death.

Hear, hear!


DavidS - Mar 09, 2025 12:29:27 pm PDT #6011 of 6025
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I forgot it was DST this morning and just felt like I'd lazed in bed forever when I checked my phone.

Glorious sunny day outside that I have not taken advantage of as yet.

In the Fall, I helped Matilda's BF and her friend Alison and two of their friends move into an apartment in the Tenderloin. They're all recent high school grads who are working full-time, going to City College and needed a foothold in the City.

Alison has never learned how to cook properly so I had her over last night to teach her two of my recipes (Frittata and chili) and that was fun to do some mentoring, and send her home with food. She's been living on TJ's frozen meals.

Matilda is lobbying hard to adopt a dog she's fallen in love with in Japan and bring it home. That seems dauntingly difficult from a logistical standpoint, plus she's still living with a host family and she's going to be going to college. Logic is not driving her tugboat.

I'm currently planning on my trip down to LA for my friend Josh's memorial in a couple weeks. I've decided to stay at the very posh Langham Huntington hotel as it is close to both events and also it looks luxurious.

I don't know if I mentioned but he was remembered during the Oscars In Memoriam section, which was a lovely tribute to him running Film Independent (Spirit Awards, et al) for the last 20 years. But I imagined him doing a spit-take in heaven when he saw was noted as "Executive." "What?! That's bullshit. That's not punk!"


Tom Scola - Mar 09, 2025 12:39:04 pm PDT #6012 of 6025
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Holy hell, Plei.


Pix - Mar 09, 2025 1:00:16 pm PDT #6013 of 6025
The status is NOT quo.

I've decided to stay at the very posh Langham Huntington hotel as it is close to both events and also it looks luxurious.

It's lovely! I've never stayed there, but everyone who I know who has loves it. Let us know if you'll have any free time and want to meet up.

I wouldn't mind staying on regular time year round in SoCal, but I don't mind the time change. I love having light late at night. It's just a bitch to adjust to it when I already get up at 5:30 on weekdays to get to work on time. I loved DST when I lived in New England. The sun wouldn't rise until after 8 in the winter here if we stayed on DST all the time, so that's a hard no for me.


meara - Mar 09, 2025 1:13:55 pm PDT #6014 of 6025

On the one hand I wouldn’t want the sun to rise after 9am. On the other hand, would it be that much worse than rising after 8am? Either way I’m in the dark when I start work. I might be down.


brenda m - Mar 09, 2025 1:30:41 pm PDT #6015 of 6025
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

My animals did get the memo and mistakenly thought the clocks moved ahead by two hours so they were fussing at me two hours earlier than they normally would. Jerks.


brenda m - Mar 09, 2025 1:33:00 pm PDT #6016 of 6025
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I stayed at the Langham in Boston last year and it was very nice.

Including some of the most comfortable pillows I’ve ever slept on. Which fortunately had a tag on them once I removed the pillowcase and cover So I immediately replaced my pillows when I got back home.

So I guess you could say it got kind of pricy but it was worth it.


Sheryl - Mar 09, 2025 2:34:11 pm PDT #6017 of 6025
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm sorry for the loss of your family's house, Plei.

We had Mr.S here Fri-Sat, since there was an event this morning at the RTC he had expressed interest in at the time we were setting up the visit. No meltdowns, but it wasn't a great visit. He woke us up around 3:30 Saturday morning because he had thrown up. He got sick several more times during the day, so we brought him to the nurses' station at the RTC a little early. Poor boy also had chills.

We think it was food poisoning, as he had insisted on stopping at a convenience store on the way here, and got a spicy chicken sandwich. At least we know it wasn't COVID or FluA or FluB, since he tested negative for all of them.