Danger's my birthright.

Buffy ,'The Killer In Me'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Mar 09, 2025 9:23:46 am PDT #5999 of 6025
Our wings are not tired.

It really isn't just an age thing. My sister slipped on ice on her deck and broke her ankle decades ago. She crawled to her phone and called her son, but that might not have been an option. Life is scary and we need to watch out for each other.

Continuing to hold Plei and family in my heart. So many things to deal with! When you can please check in and let us know how it is going.

In meme news. I have pinkeye. A world of ugh. Fortunately the RN on call at my doctor's office got a script called in for me when I texted him a picture. It's presenting differently than usual, as in my whole eye socket aches. I'll go into the office tomorrow if it gets worse.


Steph L. - Mar 09, 2025 9:30:04 am PDT #6000 of 6025
I look more rad than Lutheranism

my whole eye socket aches.

You need Eye Morphine.


Laura - Mar 09, 2025 9:35:14 am PDT #6001 of 6025
Our wings are not tired.

Yes! Eye Morphine would be good, but they only prescribed antibiotic gel. Boo.


Steph L. - Mar 09, 2025 9:40:25 am PDT #6002 of 6025
I look more rad than Lutheranism

they only prescribed antibiotic gel

That's not even in the same ballpark as Eye Morphine, dang it.


dcp - Mar 09, 2025 9:51:19 am PDT #6003 of 6025
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Ugh. This year's Spring Forward for DST has hit me much harder than usual. My usual alarm woke me up and I took my first meds, but then I fell back asleep and didn't wake up for four hours. I'm still catching up, and half the day is gone!


Laura - Mar 09, 2025 10:00:11 am PDT #6004 of 6025
Our wings are not tired.

Time change sucks. Also, the animals don't read clocks, and apparently, my body doesn't either.


Steph L. - Mar 09, 2025 10:15:12 am PDT #6005 of 6025
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I had back pain that led to insomnia last night (ibuprofen and heating pad took care of the back pain), so I'm all screwed up today anyway. Tomorrow will be the challenge.

It is super sunny and nice here today, which does make it easier to start to reset the ol' internal clock. And more light at the end of the day is the BEST.


Laura - Mar 09, 2025 10:32:11 am PDT #6006 of 6025
Our wings are not tired.

Florida voted to stay on DST years ago, but it was never approved at the federal level.


-t - Mar 09, 2025 10:47:02 am PDT #6007 of 6025
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Had a good day yesterday. Took the train to meet mom in her downtown for an Int’l Women’s Day rally. Not much information prior from the organizer, just a coffee shop to meet at, so we went there and milled around with a bunch of other people in the not yet being used courtyard of the brewery nextdoor, none of whom seemed to be in charge or even have a clipboard or anything. Eventually someone did claim her title as organizer and told us that she had really envisioned a meeting where we could all share resources but with with such a large group (the website said about 100 people RSVP’d but I would guess it was more than that there) we!d better pivot. Someone from another group had a plan to march down main street to the courthouse and circle back, maybe head to city hall. A state assembly member was there, so she spoke a bit about what she’s trying to do re: ICE especially, not my rep but she seems pretty on the ball. Someone asked about Newsom’s podcast performance and everyone booed which was gratifying. A bit more of anyone who had ongoing demonstrations or actions briefly mentioning them, a little call and response chanting, and off we went. No parade permit so we kept to the sidewalks and let cars cross at intersections and so forth. Main Street is only 5 or 6 blocks long, so energy stayed pretty high the whole time. Most people driving by or walking around going about their business seemed supportive. Mom noticed one family that she thought were obviously Christians just coming from services (by how they were dressed) giving us the evil eye, and one guy stood on a corner flipping everyone off and yelling “fuck you” as we went by which was just, I don’t know, pathetic? Anyway, assembled the crowd on the courthouse steps for a while which hopefully made a good picture and some more chanting. I think a Tesla drove by to jeers and booing but I couldn’t see the car very well to be sure. A bit more sedate on the next leg where the streets were less busy, ending at a park where we got another mass picture and exchanged some more information. Felt pretty good.

Headed back to Mom’s to collect Dad and went to lunch, which was very pleasant. Back at their house just chatted for a while, Dad decided to take a nap and me and mom watched Flow. Dad halfway woke up at one point and heard the dog’s barking in the movie, thought in his semi-dreaming state that Mom had gotten a dog, he did not want to deal with that, and went back to sleep. He did wake up entirely and join us before the end, so we tried to explain what he had missed but it’s not like he couldn’t follow what was going on well enough without much explanation. Whipped up some delicious asparagus and tempeh and kasha for dinner, got the dishes washed, and got me to the train well in time to be back home before full dark.

Being very lazy and hermitty today


Susan W. - Mar 09, 2025 11:09:59 am PDT #6008 of 6025
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Florida voted to stay on DST years ago, but it was never approved at the federal level.

Washington did the same, and I feel like maybe the entire West Coast? I like DST better, though the first day or two can be rough. I'm starting to come around to thinking that the time change is actually the best option for living this far north. I say I want to keep DST in the winter because that long stretch where it's dark before 5 PM is just so depressing, but if we did it wouldn't be light till after 9 AM, which is arguably worse. But in the summer, if we didn't have DST we'd have 4 AM sunrises in June, but lose the luxury of the post 9 PM midsummer sunsets. Though I guess a morning person might take the opposite view on both points.

I recently read a book called How To Winter which spent a lot of time looking at how Scandinavian countries handle winter, and came away with the insight that I need to stop resenting November-January so much and instead face the Great Dark with mindfulness, radical acceptance, and maybe some personal rituals. Which makes sense, and is probably more healthy than my annual rage, rage against the temporary dying of the light. Not to mention remembering that by global standards Seattle isn't all that extremely north at all. We're actually south of Paris!