Here is your cup of coffee.  Brewed from the finest Colombian lighter fluid.

Xander ,'Chosen'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Jan 27, 2025 11:55:20 pm PST #4916 of 5006
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Sweet Jebus, it’s Belinda’s Victorian ancestor. [link]

A worthy precursor!

It was actually a good thing that the Shinkansen required a short cab ride because it would've been a nightmare getting around Shimbashi station (which has lots of stairs) with Matilda's biggest suitcase and the overflow of bags she brought.

We only had to carry it up one short flight of stairs at the Tokyo Station and ask a gate agent what track we were going out on (18). The rest was on the ticket, and I could read that because I had watched a YouTube explainer video. How did I function before YouTube and Google maps?

Because we didn't want to rush we actually were at the right track, in the waiting area an hour early. Fortunately we had a place to sit and a concession stand to buy bento box and sandos and bottled coffee, so we did that.

At some point we realized there was a critical mass of little kids wandering around with toy bullet trains in their hands, all of them a distinctive yellow. Then there was a flurry of excitement and all the people on the platform filming the arrival of a rather magnificent yellow and blue train (imagine - Yellow Submarine but sleeker).

I did not know the import of this, but my friend Betty reported that we had seen the bullet train equivalent of a spirit bear or white buffalo: The Most Rare Shinkansen - Doctor Yellow. A train that is going out of service soon, so train buffs came just to see it.

It's not owls but it's pretty cool.

We got to our reserved seats and with much heave and ho, Matilda and I got her big suitcase up into the overhead rack, along with the 6 other bags of various sizes. As we settled in a young couple arrived with their toddler in his stroller.

He started to fuss as they took him out of the stroller and collapsed it and put it away, so Matilda used her Powers of Babysitting, engaged with him and got him out of his fuss. The mother, Nadia, spoke English fluently, and they were super nice and we chatted with them, and played peekaboo with the boy until he settled down for his nap. A lovely interaction.

Arrived at Kyoto station, grabbed a cab and 15 minutes later we were dropped off at our Ryokan (traditional Japanese Inn instead of a hotel).

We were welcomed in, shown our rooms, and Matilda immediately put on her Yukata (robe) provided by the Ryokan, and we figured out the WiFi.

At four promptly a charming young woman named Honika came in and served us tea and and gave us a rundown of the rules, and we made our dinner and breakfast arrangements with her. She would be making us the Kaiseiki (traditional haute cuisine meal served in many small courses) dinner tonight, as well as the Japanese Breakfast (not just a band name!) tomorrow morning.

At some point I will take advantage of the traditional bath.

Matilda is currently sitting in her Yukata at the low table with her Japanese phrase book and writing down notes.

At 6:30 we'll get a knock on the door and go next door for dinner.

Tomorrow is our one day together in Kyoto where we'll be together all day, so we'll need a fun plan.

Thursday is Day 1 of her orientation and that will take most of the day but she'll come back to the Ryokan to spend one last night with me.

On Friday, she has Day 2 of her orientation and at the end of the day her host family collects her and she'll spend the weekend with them in Osaka. I'll be in Kyoto by myself through the weekend, and will be leaving on Monday, Feb 3, which is her first day of classes.

It's an adventure!


dcp - Jan 28, 2025 4:57:09 am PST #4917 of 5006
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Doctor Yellow: [link]


brenda m - Jan 28, 2025 5:56:10 am PST #4918 of 5006
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That sounds like an excellent portent for the adventures ahead.


JenP - Jan 28, 2025 6:09:50 am PST #4919 of 5006

Oh, wow, the Dr. Yellow trains - that's cool. And since you and Matilda witnessed one that bodes well for her coming stay! Awesome.

The Ryokan sounds lovely.

Top of my head and no knowledge to back it up, the Prius sounds like a good option.


flea - Jan 28, 2025 6:15:47 am PST #4920 of 5006
information libertarian

Mr. Fleas Union has advised thecEPA that they should honor the employee contracts in place, including those that are for remote work. So, step two.

It’s all going to be so grindingly slow and exhausting but actually Mr. fleas remote appointment is under a disability so he has unusual protection. So we have extra backup.


flea - Jan 28, 2025 6:16:49 am PST #4921 of 5006
information libertarian

We bought a 2010 Prius with 147k miles this past summer (clean carfax) and it is a little workhorse. I drive it 45 miles a day.


sj - Jan 28, 2025 6:25:59 am PST #4922 of 5006
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm loving all the Japan trip details! I hope you both have an excellent time.

Hivemind: What does one wear meeting up with another mom on a Friday night? I can't even remember the last time I went out with a friend for something that wasn't coffee and wasn't a couples thing (but I'm pretty sure I was about half my current age and half my current size). I tend to either be underdressed or overdressed for everything.


Gudanov - Jan 28, 2025 6:51:10 am PST #4923 of 5006
Coding and Sleeping

Without knowing anything about the individual car, the 2013 Prius is known to be one of the most reliable cars you can get. Of course, with a 12 year old car, how well the car is maintained is a big factor as well. I think it is definitely worth a look. If there are things that don't work, the suspension feels sus when going over bumps, there are dents on the outside, and the interior looks beat to heck, then you know, probably a sign that the car hasn't been cared for. If it looks and drive like or nearly like new, then probably a sign it has. Pay a little bit to run the VIN number through a Carfax like service if the VIN history isn't provided to check for red flags like salvage title or big accident.


Laura - Jan 28, 2025 7:09:33 am PST #4924 of 5006
Our wings are not tired.

I sure wish Matilda had brought less.

Wishing you another lovely day! It sounds like the train ride was perfect. The trains were a complete delight for Brendon. I keep seeing over and over again on the various Japan travel sites warning not to overpack. It just adds stress. Of course, Matilda is staying for much longer and easier said than done.

They have a 2013 Prius for about the same amount as i am getting from the insurance. this got the brain weasels turning and now I'm wondering if that is the route to go.

My son drives a 2018 Prius and he loves it. I drove it from Florida to NY by myself and it handled well, and got great mileage.

What does one wear meeting up with another mom on a Friday night?

I do not qualify as a fashionista, but I would go with what makes you comfortable and feeling good about yourself. It isn't a specific plan for fancy or super casual.


Theodosia - Jan 28, 2025 7:34:27 am PST #4925 of 5006
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Go Doctor Yellow! Choose Doctor Yellow!