Well, you'd better not be thinking what I think you're thinking, because my answer is the same as always — no threesomes unless it's boy-boy-girl. Or Charlize Theron.

Harmony ,'First Date'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


meara - Jan 27, 2025 8:26:31 am PST #4890 of 5009

Yes but at the same time I don’t really need it to be February yet. Though I am anxiously awaiting longer daylight hours.

It’s Monday morning. I read some work emails in bed and had to promptly call someone to stop them from doing the wrong thing which they should’ve known better. And now I just want to crawl back into bed except my tummy is unhappy so I’m not sure I could sleep.


Gudanov - Jan 27, 2025 9:00:17 am PST #4891 of 5009
Coding and Sleeping

Yeah, the the first hundred days of Trump 2 has been rough.


JenP - Jan 27, 2025 9:48:44 am PST #4892 of 5009

Some asshole just tried to scam the non-profit I work for as a (very minimal hourly) contractor -- they sent her an email with my name on it (but not from my email address) telling her they'd need to change "my" banking info. before next payroll.

She responded, but, fortunately, she pays me through PayPal, so she was like, "I think you'd need to change that on your end .."

Also, fortunately, I just happened to be looking at that email account to see whether my 1099 went out, and I noticed the email from "me." Gave her a heads up and pointed out a couple of telltales, but... phew! I mean, actually, if it helps make her more suspicious of stuff in the future, then it's kind of a low stakes way to have gotten a little scare.

Clearly, they looked at my LI profile and got my title from it (I actually changed it yesterday, interestingly) -- that's the only place I refer to myself the way they signed the email. Jerks.

Just worked for a client whose clients got similar emails, and a couple of them fell for it, and what a nightmare that was.


-t - Jan 27, 2025 10:08:45 am PST #4893 of 5009
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

but at the same time I don’t really need it to be February yet.

For planning purposes, we use a weekly calendar that is divided into periods that approximate months rather than actual months, and period 1 is 4 weeks long with the first week starting 12/29/24 so now that it is week 5 I am arguably in a new planning cycle. This does not improve anything, as far as I can tell.


-t - Jan 27, 2025 10:09:17 am PST #4894 of 5009
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Also, that sucks, JenP, glad y'all caught it before any harm was done


meara - Jan 27, 2025 10:11:52 am PST #4895 of 5009

Wait, so was the email actually sent from your account or did she cc you on the response, or how did you see the email from “you” in your account?


JenP - Jan 27, 2025 10:25:41 am PST #4896 of 5009

No, they sent it from their own Gmail account to the email address listed on the org's website (I also have access to that org email account -- we both do, so that's how I saw it), but they changed the "how your name appears in recipient's inbox" to say that their email was from Jennifer Mylastname. Of course, when you open the email, if you hover over it, you see their actual sending account is not from me, but if you're not suspicious...

So, from LI, they learned my name, my title, the org I worked for... not hard to get an email address for it... and voila! Scam city!


Steph L. - Jan 27, 2025 10:47:50 am PST #4897 of 5009
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Argh, it's been 3 fucking weeks and the prior authorization for my migraine meds is still up in the air. I'm thinking about making voodoo dolls of everyone involved and then stabbing pins in the heads to give them all migraines.


-t - Jan 27, 2025 11:00:01 am PST #4898 of 5009
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Steph! They should definitely all get hit with some kind of sympathetic magic to teach them a lesson


Dana - Jan 27, 2025 11:14:53 am PST #4899 of 5009
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Fuck that, Steph.