I kissed him, and I told him that I loved him. And I killed him.

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


NoiseDesign - Jan 22, 2025 12:08:07 pm PST #4779 of 4799
Our wings are not tired

A new fire has broken out here in the LA area. This one is up by Castaic lake. My business warehouse is now in an evacuation warning zone. We just told the folks working there to get the heck out.


brenda m - Jan 22, 2025 12:14:58 pm PST #4780 of 4799
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh geez ND. I’m so sorry. Fingers back in crossed position.

Yay for benignity!

the pin prick shotgun holes in the picture window
Is there a good story to go with that?

I expect it involves beer and dumbassery in roughly equal quantities, but sadly it was before my time.


DavidS - Jan 22, 2025 12:18:39 pm PST #4781 of 4799
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

We’re at the gate ready to board!


brenda m - Jan 22, 2025 12:19:26 pm PST #4782 of 4799
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

We all had what is apparently a really intense (online) active shooter training dropped on us without warning today.

Like, maybe a little heads up so we can prepare our teams? I gave everyone a bit of a warning that it might be a lot and shared some crisis hotline numbers for this or any other purposes. But not before one of my team members alerted me that she was left shaky and had to take a break after watching it.


brenda m - Jan 22, 2025 12:19:52 pm PST #4783 of 4799
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yay for getting clear of this place for a while!


JenP - Jan 22, 2025 12:27:51 pm PST #4784 of 4799

Woo-hoo, almost boarding time!


-t - Jan 22, 2025 12:27:54 pm PST #4785 of 4799
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, man, brenda, that's rough.

{{{ND}}} I hope it's under control soon and everyone's ok

Woo boarding!


lisah - Jan 22, 2025 12:33:47 pm PST #4786 of 4799
Punishingly Intricate

Safe and fun travels, Hec and Matilda!!!

We just got this email from the new acting director of OPM:

Dear OPM Employees,

We are taking steps to close all agency DEIA offices and end all DEIA-related contracts in accordance with President Trump’s executive orders titled Ending Radical and Wasteful Government DEI Programs and Preferencing and Initial Rescissions of Harmful Executive Orders and Actions.

These programs divided Americans by race, wasted taxpayer dollars, and resulted in shameful discrimination.

We are aware of efforts by some in government to disguise these programs by using coded or imprecise language. If you are aware of a change in any contract description or personnel position description since November 5, 2024, to obscure the connection between the contract and DEIA or similar ideologies, please report all facts and circumstances to DEIAtruth@opm.gov within 10 days.

There will be no adverse consequences for timely reporting this information. However, failure to report this information within 10 days may result in adverse consequences.

Thank you for your attention to this important matter. Chuck Ezell Acting Director U.S. Office of Personnel Management


Consuela - Jan 22, 2025 12:35:26 pm PST #4787 of 4799
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

flea, fingers crossed that you DH's meeting was nbd.

Even the last time, I didn't feel this personally attacked. Like, people LIKE our agency! We do good work! And yet we now have someone in charge who wants me, personally, to go away, and all my team too. Doesn't care if hazardous waste contaminates the Bay or the salmon fishery is destroyed. Doesn't care if historic houses fall into ruin, or children are exposed to lead paint. Some of them actively want me to be miserable and upset so that I will quit.

It's really unsettling, and yet leadership expects us to just... keep doing the job. It's hard. I don't think the uniformed personnel get it, they're not under threat the same way (except for the trans members, anyway).


Consuela - Jan 22, 2025 12:37:40 pm PST #4788 of 4799
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

lisah, I continue to be surprised that I can be surprised.

That anyone is willing to distribute notices with such unprofessional and partisan language, within the agency. I'd forgotten what it was like.

Funny thing: I was coming up on my three-year cycle to retake the agency Civil Rights training. I wonder if it will be cancelled. Probably, because the folks who give it will be suspended.

Christ, these people are assholes.