Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Theodosia - Jan 21, 2025 2:34:50 pm PST #4727 of 4749
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I got a pile of mail built up, which probably includes my updated driver's license. I tried to buy Sudafed today, and the system wouldn't accept my temporary license. So, since I had a retired priest with me (really, he's a resident who needed stuff from CVS) I asked if it was okay for him to buy it for me if I gave him the money.

Then it occurred to me that the pharmacist might have a problem with our transaction . No, he said, it's not my business what he does with it.

I'm certain I never imagined I'd have to get a priest to keep my sinuses clear.


Steph L. - Jan 21, 2025 2:36:43 pm PST #4728 of 4749
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

It snowed a tiny bit here but Tallahassee, where Dad lives is supposed to get 2-3 inches ... This winter is just wild.

My friend in NOLA said she has 8 inches in her yard!


DavidS - Jan 21, 2025 2:50:02 pm PST #4729 of 4749
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Things proceed apace! I sent Matilda off to battle with Walgreens and she came away with her 90 Day Prescription of ADs. Adulting!

Just picked up Cousin Nicole (aka, Nikki) from Emeryville Amtrak. She will be housesitting in the Garden Apartment and keeping the piggies alive.

I've emailed the Ryokan to tell them our eating plans (you have to reserve ahead of time). Got my ESim set up for my phone when I get to Tokyo.

Now I just have to do 18 other tiddly things today. But getting Matilda's meds was the key sticking point and it's unstuck.


JenP - Jan 21, 2025 3:15:48 pm PST #4730 of 4749

Yay for Japan progress!

Had a nice lunch with my cousin, then went and worked from the library. Just got home. Dinner time.


-t - Jan 21, 2025 3:25:28 pm PST #4731 of 4749
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Cautious yay for Alex's passport

I'm certain I never imagined I'd have to get a priest to keep my sinuses clear.

Makes a good story!

My friend in NOLA said she has 8 inches in her yard!

That is bananapants

Woo Japan!

So, our most recent re-org includes a promotion and raise for me, which is totally unexpected but nice! And not really any additional responsibilities, it's one of those "you're already doing the work" deals. And another desk move which is less nice but not terrible. Still pending - whether our department is hiring another manager (as was in process before the layoffs), exactly what my team will be contributing to the new vision, and a third secret thing that I either can't remember or have just made up because things must come in threes


EpicTangent - Jan 21, 2025 3:31:57 pm PST #4732 of 4749
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

a promotion and raise for me, which is totally unexpected but nice! And not really any additional responsibilities, it's one of those "you're already doing the work" deals.

Wait, this actually does happen on occasion? You've given me a tiny shred of ... whatever the opposite of jaded cynicism is. So that's nice. Best of luck with the new desk, possible new manager, and elusive third thing!


EpicTangent - Jan 21, 2025 3:34:55 pm PST #4733 of 4749
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Yay for Jen & DH being able to use their own indoor plumbing again!


Dana - Jan 21, 2025 3:39:08 pm PST #4734 of 4749
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Yeah, it's a little bonkers in NOLA right now.


JenP - Jan 21, 2025 3:40:11 pm PST #4735 of 4749

Thank you! It is a treat.

Congrats, -t! Good news.


Emily - Jan 21, 2025 4:09:10 pm PST #4736 of 4749
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

meara, I briefly thought of forwarding you a Facebook post from someone I went to college with who's looking for somewhere to live in Seattle with roommates, "preferably queer... [with] a place to practice line dances." So probably... yes, there you are in her friend list.

I basically ignored all news or social media yesterday and it was absolutely the right move. I know I can't hide in the sand for 4 years, but for one day...

Good luck with all the Japanese tiddles, Hec!