Zoe: My man would never fall for that. Wash: Most of my head wishes I had.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 19, 2025 6:40:28 pm PST #4648 of 4817
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Alas, my job has just added new tasks that involve being on FB a fair amount. Otherwise, I'll probably continue to use it to keep up with relatives and friends while rolling my eyes at anything purporting to be news or verified facts.


Emily - Jan 19, 2025 7:00:29 pm PST #4649 of 4817
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Thanks for the welcome back! Hec, how long will you be in Japan? I remember that Matilda was going, but I missed details.

I actually really enjoyed TikTok, but it was immediately too addictive. Also trends move so fast that I would get nostalgic after a week. I feel a little sad about all those "men like pterodactyls!" and cosplay lipsync videos.


aurelia - Jan 19, 2025 7:10:10 pm PST #4650 of 4817
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

I cut way back on Meta just by unpinning the FB tab on my laptop and putting it into a folder on my phone. I checked my settings yesterday and glanced at it long enough to find a couple more bsky names. I've tried to minimize the ability of ads to reach my eyeballs, but there are some very useful industry groups that I don't want to completely lose so I haven't made a complete break (yet).

I do need to figure out how to get involved in some local groups offline.

I got the signal app four years ago and never did anything with it. I now have that set up as far as I can tell.

Cash, I've been meaning to say that I'm happy to be a local contact for your eldest if ever needed.


Susan W. - Jan 19, 2025 7:13:34 pm PST #4651 of 4817
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I got hooked on TikTok during my breast reduction surgery recovery 2 years ago. I think the thing that pisses me off most on a personal level about our tech oligarchy is that it shouldn't feel like any kind of political statement to use an app that helps keep me in touch with far-flung friends and relatives (FB) or lets me amuse myself in spare moments with the antics of, say, a charmingly eccentric cat rescuer in Vancouver (TikTok).


meara - Jan 19, 2025 7:20:30 pm PST #4652 of 4817

Amen, Susan. As others said, I don’t feel any safer just because the billionaire with my data is American instead of Chinese…but also I just want nice things!! Why can’t we have nice things. (Other than borg)


DavidS - Jan 19, 2025 8:01:07 pm PST #4653 of 4817
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Hec, how long will you be in Japan? I remember that Matilda was going, but I missed details.

I'll be there for ten days, about equally split between Tokyo and Kyoto. Matilda will be there for three months, studying Japanese. I overlap with her orientation but leave on her first day of class. She'll be with a host family (the mother is into Kendo and Country Guitar). They have a dog! We're looking for the right dog present.


Cashmere - Jan 19, 2025 8:28:02 pm PST #4654 of 4817
Now tagless for your comfort.

Cash, I've been meaning to say that I'm happy to be a local contact for your eldest if ever needed.

Thank you, Aurelia! I love knowing people are looking out for my kids.


EpicTangent - Jan 19, 2025 10:06:23 pm PST #4655 of 4817
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Well, I seem to have come down with a stomach bug this weekend. I haven't thrown up since last night, but I still feel off and can't seem to regulate my temp, so I'll be staying in bed tomorrow to avoid the "festivities". I had already been planning to call in when you guys reminded me why I would be pleased to miss any and all news feeds tomorrow. So thanks for that. And I'm also (sort of inexplicably?) disappointed in Snoop.


Theodosia - Jan 20, 2025 3:31:53 am PST #4656 of 4817
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I actually plugged-in my plug-in hybrid new-to-me car yesterday! I don't have a driveway or garage, so an at-home recharge is not in the cards. So I found a public charging station in Central Square (Cambridge) and went walking/shopping for like 40 minutes, which got it up to a half-charge.. for 45 cents!

The half charge doesn't take it far at all on just EV -- like 6 miles. The gas half is way more efficient than my previous car -- I'm getting like 32mpg, so it's a win even if I don't charge up often. But it would be nice if I could charge up every day, I drive less than 6 miles on a typical day, to work and back and errands.


Theodosia - Jan 20, 2025 3:32:13 am PST #4657 of 4817
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

And, a big HI to Emily.