Well, then, this is a day I'll feel good to be me.

Mal ,'Trash'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Dec 11, 2024 1:38:16 pm PST #3998 of 4188
Our wings are not tired.

Thanks all. Hi Sparky! I have the consult lined up for the 19th. Since the doctor said the cataract is coloring things brown, everything looks like I am looking through brown sunglasses. I am so easily influenced. I've gone through it with my mother and siblings so the drops schedule won't be a surprise. I just want it done asap as I know I am not seeing the way I used to. I want to see the moon details! And the bodies jogging on the beach!

The DEXA today should give a clue on how these old bones are doing. They scheduled my follow-up extensive breast scan for January 22nd so obviously not too worried. I'll probably ask them to put me on a waitlist. I just want to put a bunch of checkmarks on my list.


Calli - Dec 11, 2024 5:36:28 pm PST #3999 of 4188
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My grandmother had cataract surgery in the 70s, my mom had it in the early 2000s, and my sister will probably have it in 2025. It’s definitely a procedure that the medical establishment has down well.

Now that I’m in a new place, with new insurance, I need to find new a new doctor. I’d just found myself a new one in NC, after my awesome doctor of 20+ years retired. I mean, being able to get regular medical care is a privilege and all. But the process of setting it up is tedious. “Hello. Is Dr. Whatsit taking new patients? I need to set up my annual fat shaming and get a referral for a boob squeeze. Ta ever so.”


Calli - Dec 11, 2024 5:37:09 pm PST #4000 of 4188
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Captain Crunch purely for number slutting purposes.


-t - Dec 11, 2024 7:35:55 pm PST #4001 of 4188
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Kudos for the numberslut. Warms my heart.


msbelle - Dec 12, 2024 8:33:37 am PST #4002 of 4188
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Scene - online work meeting, working with another department to complete a spreadsheet with info they need from our department.

Me- going to documents to find the info and copy/pasting it in shared/collab document they have onscreen in the meeting.

My boss - “oh I’ve opened the next one we need.” Starts reading out the info.

Me- “do you have the shared document open? I’m cutting and pasting, I’m not typing from dictation.” Knowing full well she is confused by sharepoint and teams.

Boss- oh no, I don’t.

Me- proceeds to copy/paste the next four things needed, trying not to roll eyes.

My boss is sick and I wish she’d just bow out of these meetings. I’m tired and my frustrations are too close to the surface.


JenP - Dec 12, 2024 1:40:40 pm PST #4003 of 4188

Ooh, that’s an hour and a half or so from me, count me in!

Suhweet! It looks like a mini F2F in CT in our future.

Love this. LOVE THIS.


Laura - Dec 12, 2024 4:13:34 pm PST #4004 of 4188
Our wings are not tired.

In ugh holiday news, Brendon is going to LA for a basketball tournament, on December 26th. This wouldn't be a big deal, and I would have joined him, but my son and his GF arrive in Florida on December 25th. So I will be doing all the holiday stuff with the kids without dad. He will still be in LA for his birthday on the 28th. Sigh. I'm like, okay with it, but would probably have changed the kids' visit schedule if I had known earlier.


brenda m - Dec 12, 2024 5:29:49 pm PST #4005 of 4188
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

How can one person be so extravagant and boring at the same time?

Me to the family member who just put an $80 navy blue doormat on their elfster wishlist. The hell you say.


-t - Dec 12, 2024 5:46:17 pm PST #4006 of 4188
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Trying to imagine what could make a doormat be worth $80 and not coming up with anything. Secretly a trap door? Seems like that would be pricier.


Cass - Dec 12, 2024 6:12:59 pm PST #4007 of 4188
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I need cataract surgery on the right eye

Anecdotally my mom had hers done and it was easy peasy with quick results. She was very pleased back in 2017. If I need it, I'm going to get past the scared and see better. I did think I was seeing floaters once but it was just a spider on its web that was MUCH closer than I thought.