You all gonna be here when I wake up?

Mal ,'Out Of Gas'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


NoiseDesign - Nov 26, 2024 6:40:44 pm PST #3657 of 4424
Our wings are not tired

Theo, I'm sorry, that's no fun. I'm so thankful that Kristin and I have built our own celebrations with our friends.


megan walker - Nov 26, 2024 7:18:10 pm PST #3658 of 4424
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Theo, that's a bummer. Have you ever reached out to them about it? I ask because I don't think I've ever been "invited" for Christmas at my sister's but she then she gets annoyed/mad if I don't go (which I hear about from others not her).

Relatedly, I am also thankful that Kristin and Drew have built their own celebrations with their friends.


megan walker - Nov 26, 2024 7:34:00 pm PST #3659 of 4424
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

And now for something completely different:

Some good (YDefinitionOfGoodMV) election news!

New ballots finally dropped in CA13 and it has flipped from R to D, with the Dem now ahead by 182 votes. Still too close to call but most of the remaining ballots are from Merced and other northern counties that lean Dem so, along with CA45, this is likely to mean Dems will have more seats in the House than where they started after the 2022 election.


Cashmere - Nov 26, 2024 9:49:22 pm PST #3660 of 4424
Now tagless for your comfort.

I’ll take any good(ish) election news like it is water in the desert.


JenP - Nov 27, 2024 4:47:29 am PST #3661 of 4424

Thanks for checking in and sharing, Epic. Sounds like the new drug... once you can get back to it... is making a difference. So glad you're feeling more like yourself. Continued ~ma to you.


lisah - Nov 27, 2024 6:59:00 am PST #3662 of 4424
Punishingly Intricate

Thanks for checking in, Epic!


brenda m - Nov 27, 2024 7:52:02 am PST #3663 of 4424
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Glad to hear the update and go team hemoglobin! Can they give you an iron infusion I wonder? That can help a lot with the anemia and listlessness.

Aside: what a strange word. Like, I’m so tired and/or bored I can’t even bring myself to make a list, let alone do any of the things. Or anyway that’s my new entirely made up etymology.


Pix - Nov 27, 2024 7:53:04 am PST #3664 of 4424
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I’ll take any good(ish) election news like it is water in the desert.

I am Cashmere.

Epic, thinking about you. I know you seek those silver linings, but it's all crap, and fuck cancer. Sending love and healing vibes.

I am also glad we have our traditions. I need to go find the turkey brining container and get that started, relatedly.


sj - Nov 27, 2024 8:05:20 am PST #3665 of 4424
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Theo, we host an afternoon thing on Christmas Eve, and you’re more than welcome to come.


Steph L. - Nov 27, 2024 8:07:09 am PST #3666 of 4424
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Ohio's governor signed a bill banning trans students from using the correct bathroom.

I have a sinus headache trying to shatter my skull.

I'm trying to figure out how to avoid seeing my dad while my brother is in town (because Dad likes to see both of his kids together) (he doesn't know both of his kids hate him more every day).

And I have to talk about all this with my therapist in 2 hours. Well, she probably won't want to talk about my sinus headache, but you never know.) I am DEFINITELY going to the fancy chocolate store after therapy. (I need to place my gigantic chocolate order for Christmas gifts anyway. The bonus is chocolate for me today.)