Actually not needing validation right now, but thank you.

Buffy ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Nov 12, 2024 1:04:53 pm PST #3427 of 4190
Punishingly Intricate

Thank you NYT Tech Guild for giving Connections back to me! Best birthday present ever

Ooh I didn’t know!! Phew


JenP - Nov 12, 2024 2:00:13 pm PST #3428 of 4190

it's the 20s NOW" which was just such a rude thing to point out even if it was both relevant and true.

Ah, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha! Also, ouch.


askye - Nov 12, 2024 5:39:18 pm PST #3429 of 4190
Thrive to spite them

Happy Birthday Jessica.

I'm avoiding the news because every time I look at it there is something more depressing.

M and I went up to Mom's and toon M to the locally owned toy store so he could get something cool for his birthday. Which he did a really cool model car. We also had scones and a nice visit. Mom had found this cat pattern quilt which I will admit several years ago I might have turned my nose up at for being ...too much ...but it's comfy and awesome and she got it because we are Cat People

Came home and found out the Kitten M's Mom brought home this summer has something really wrong with its paw. Its a sickly kitten and she hasn't taken it to get any kind of vet care. I don't want to be financially responsible for that kitten but it's in pain and limping badly so I'm calling the vet tomorrow. I'm only paying for its paw. M's mom was like "I'll pay you back but not next month I have to buy Xmas presents" (except every adult has told her not to buy them anything to just pay off her debts)

And then we are calling the animal shelter about surrounding the kitten. I feel horrible about that but I cant afford vet bills for a sickly cat. Its bad enough with Scrappy getting into fights and having to deal with is nonsense and this kitten isn't even mine.


Calli - Nov 12, 2024 6:05:47 pm PST #3430 of 4190
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Happy birthday, Jessica!

Lisah, I’m moving to northwestern Oakland County. My apartment application was accepted and I’ll likely be moving around 11/23.

Askye, surrendering the kitten under these circumstances sounds like a good idea.


lisah - Nov 12, 2024 7:05:29 pm PST #3431 of 4190
Punishingly Intricate

Congrats. Calli!!

I’m sorry, Askye, it does sound like surrendering the kitten might be the best option for it


Theodosia - Nov 13, 2024 4:21:58 am PST #3432 of 4190
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Poor kitty! If M's Mom can't afford to pay the vet bills, she shouldn't have taken it on. I'm glad you're there to step in and advocate for it.


Laura - Nov 13, 2024 5:28:46 am PST #3433 of 4190
Our wings are not tired.

Today we celebrate Hil's birthday! May today bring treats and spoils, and may this year exceed your expectations.


JenP - Nov 13, 2024 6:04:30 am PST #3434 of 4190

Happy Birthday, Hil! Cake and confetti in your general direction, and wishing you a super year ahead.


Steph L. - Nov 13, 2024 7:24:01 am PST #3435 of 4190
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Happy Birthday, Hil!

My tiny good thing for the day is that I made copycat Starbucks egg bites, and they are super tasty and so easy to grab out of the fridge for breakfast because I am lazy but need protein.


Matt the Bruins fan - Nov 13, 2024 8:24:20 am PST #3436 of 4190
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Happy Birthday Hil!

it's the 20s NOW" which was just such a rude thing to point out even if it was both relevant and true.

When I was contemplating a return to the Roaring 20s I was hoping it would be jazz, Art, and booze, not another Great Depression and roaring in rage at people's willful ignorance.