Spike: Heard what happened up top, offing your dad and all. Don't know if you know this, but, uh…I killed my mum. Actually, I'd already killed her, and then she tried to shag me, so I had to-- Wesley: Thank you. I'm…very comforted.

'Lineage'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


dcp - Nov 04, 2024 11:45:21 am PST #3212 of 7594
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

And I'm relieved it's over.

I recognize that feeling. I felt the same for my Dad, his father, and his mother.


JenP - Nov 04, 2024 12:01:14 pm PST #3213 of 7594

Much love to you, amyparker.


Cass - Nov 04, 2024 12:14:50 pm PST #3214 of 7594
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My feelings about my father are complex: I will admit in this company that my first thought after "He's not in pain any more, good" was "He was too ill to vote for the Cheeto Vulgarian in PA." I loved him as a child, I understand why he made the choices he did, I wish him well in whatever befalls him now.

Family is complex. As is grief and all of the other things we feel when someone dies. (parker)


Atropa - Nov 04, 2024 12:32:02 pm PST #3215 of 7594
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I am so afraid to feel any optimism, and after 2016 I've avoided looking too hard at any predictions/polls/clairvoyant octopods in case I accidentally see some good news. This is an incredibly normal and healthy way to feel for 8 years hashtag everything is fine.

I am the same. I'm going to try my damnedest to stay off of social media tomorrow, because 1) it won't help anything, 2) I've returned from the work conference to an insane amount of email and Slack messages, and 3) I'm going for a breast biopsy today, so my stress levels are already stupid high.


Atropa - Nov 04, 2024 12:32:15 pm PST #3216 of 7594
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

So much love to you, amyparker.


Steph L. - Nov 04, 2024 12:58:15 pm PST #3217 of 7594
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

However, even just taking the cynical/practical view of things, it seems clear that women are highly motivated by the Dobbs decision especially as they see women dying in parking lots.

I agree -- I think it'll turn out that Dobbs is a much bigger factor than most pollsters counted on.


erikaj - Nov 04, 2024 1:59:41 pm PST #3218 of 7594
Always Anti-fascist!

Most pollsters aren't women. Which is not something I think about every day, just like how many male Jeopardy contestants biff it on Historic Women, etc. Still true. Atropa, try not to worry. Most biopsies aren't cancer.


Beverly - Nov 04, 2024 2:09:19 pm PST #3219 of 7594
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I am Jessica, PM, and Atropa with the scared to be optimistic, and avoiding social media tomorrow.

All good thoughts to you, Atropa, on the biopsy and the workload.

Karl, congratulations on your household being vaccinated, and best thoughts the vaccines do their jobs.

Parker, I know you've had a lot of practice, and I do regret the necessity, but I'm in awe at the skill with which you navigate your family relations. Much love and comfort in your loss.


Jessica - Nov 04, 2024 2:17:26 pm PST #3220 of 7594
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Tomorrow is our corporate Global All-Hands and normally I wouldn't bother to come to the office for that but (1) there's a catered lunch and I am very food-motivated and (2) attending in person will keep me off the news for 2 hours. Score!


JenP - Nov 04, 2024 2:52:58 pm PST #3221 of 7594

Yep, a solid catered lunch would shake.me out, too, for sure. Sadly, no one is offering me one at the moment.

I feel like I just want to get in the car and drive around all day listening audio books and comfort podcasts.

Atropa, all good vibes your way for the biopsy.

ETA: But right now, I'm going to order something delicious with which to stuff my anxiety down my gullet, as you do.