I'm all up in the law now, but damn it feels good to get my violence on.

Gunn ,'Unleashed'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Jul 31, 2024 5:18:33 pm PDT #1871 of 2648
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all! We can't seem to get a break here. I got home and Mr. S and the nanny were waiting for me.(Usually he doesn't get dropped off until after 6, close to when Gary gets home.) Things went fine for a while, we put together a lego-ish kit to make a kitty, I warmed up some food he brought home for him and he watched Netflix. All of a sudden he kicks over a small chair, grabs my purse, dumps it out, grabs my phone and locks himself in the bathroom. He then calls 911, and breaks my phone. The police arrive and he tells them he wants to go to the hospital. Meanwhile I'm crying. This is not helped my the cops telling me I need to be the parent, need to be calm.(My inner voice is all "Fuck you very much", which stays inner.)

Eventually Gary gets home and agrees to take Mr. S to a facility with a behavioral center that is 40 minutes away, rather than the nearby ER where he might encounter the same nurse who told him on two separate visits to consider relinquishing custody.


-t - Jul 31, 2024 6:21:32 pm PDT #1872 of 2648
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, Sheryl. I’m so sorry. Such a rough experience and to have it be made worse by the people who are supposed to be helping. I can’t do anything but sympathize, but I certainly am doing a lot of that!


NoiseDesign - Jul 31, 2024 10:32:07 pm PDT #1873 of 2648
Our wings are not tired

Sheryl, I'm so sorry. That is all so hard. It's also such an example of where we need first responders that aren't all police.


Theodosia - Aug 01, 2024 4:51:10 am PDT #1874 of 2648
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Hugs, Sheryl. I am so worried about Mr S, you, and Gary.


Laura - Aug 01, 2024 5:20:28 am PDT #1875 of 2648
Our wings are not tired.

Today is Shir's birthday! I hope that you are having a lovely day. We all hope to see that this is the year where sanity, kindness, and peace come for you and yours.

The official calendar also indicates that today is Sheryl and Gary's anniversary. Sending hugs. I'm sorry that you aren't getting the help you need and deserve.


JenP - Aug 01, 2024 7:05:43 am PDT #1876 of 2648

Sheyl, I'm sorry it's so fucking hard and that outside help is not what it needs to be. I do hope you can enjoy your anniversary.

Happy Birthday to you, Shir. What Laura said so beautifully is my wish for you as well.


Laura - Aug 01, 2024 7:55:42 am PDT #1877 of 2648
Our wings are not tired.

Encouraging news on prisoners being released from Russia. The families must be overjoyed.


Theodosia - Aug 01, 2024 1:21:06 pm PDT #1878 of 2648
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Did I mention one of our residents, a retired journalist, got snatched by the KGB during the Reagan era? But it only took like a month to get him released. As you can imagine, I've been following this sad story with interest.


JenP - Aug 02, 2024 5:43:46 am PDT #1879 of 2648

Wow, Theo, that is definitely not something you'd shared before. I bet he was following it closely, too.

I had a lovely lunch with my aunt yesterday and then I went to a postcard writing thing at Harris/Kaine in the evening. Good day. I mean, and I worked, but that was just average.

Ooh, and I had a really good peach, a bag of which a friend gave me last weekend from an orchard picking run she had done. Man, freshly picked fruit. Yum.

What's up with everyone this weekend?


Toddson - Aug 02, 2024 6:07:31 am PDT #1880 of 2648
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I watched the video of hostages' families talking to them on the phone (hostages on the plane heading home, families in the Oval Office). My allergies are acting up.