Sometimes when I'm sitting in class... You know, I'm not thinking about class, 'cause that would never happen. I think about kissing you. And it's like everything stops. It's like, it's like freeze frame. Willow kissage.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - May 06, 2024 12:51:32 pm PDT #162 of 4188
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Oh, crud! I failed to actually schedule anything with Shir when she's in Seattle!


Karl - May 06, 2024 12:54:28 pm PDT #163 of 4188
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Thanks, folks. Next birthday is going to be the weird one (I lost my maternal grandfather when he was 58 and I was 3, and that event had ripples throughout the family.)

I am trying to just be calm and enjoy the day today, but I'll admit it's difficult. So much accumulated grief and fear for the future, and I feel like I've been in crisis mode since well before Lisa's mum passed.

I love you all, and I am so thankful for your steady, gentle presence in my life. Having one online friendship survive for twenty-plus years feels like a gift; having all of you is genuinely an embarrassment of riches.

You are My People, and I am blessed beyond possible words.


erikaj - May 06, 2024 1:07:07 pm PDT #164 of 4188
Always Anti-fascist!

Any blessing we give you, you've given back a bunch of times. Which is true, even as it's making Inner Chandler Bing super-uncomfortable to have written it out. "Jeez, can I *be* more sentimental?" Scola, I'm no expert, but that seems as good as it gets.


Trudy Booth - May 06, 2024 1:07:49 pm PDT #165 of 4188
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Happy Birthday, Karl.

"Cold Snare" is a solid band name.


erikaj - May 06, 2024 1:11:42 pm PDT #166 of 4188
Always Anti-fascist!

Yeah, I could see that.


JenP - May 06, 2024 1:35:40 pm PDT #167 of 4188

Nice results, Tom, and good on you for the adulting.

Gud, what -t said 100%. I know down to the center of my being that you are such a good human, and if beaming that in your direction helps, consider it constant.


erikaj - May 06, 2024 1:41:17 pm PDT #168 of 4188
Always Anti-fascist!

Yes, if it helps. If it wouldn't, nobody is so perfect they don't lose it under pressure.


Laura - May 06, 2024 2:12:23 pm PDT #169 of 4188
Our wings are not tired.

Gud, what -t said 100%. I know down to the center of my being that you are such a good human, and if beaming that in your direction helps, consider it constant.

All of this.

Back on the diet bandwagon after a week of cruising. I wasn't really bad, but not good either. DH is starting to feel some issues with his RA, so doing hard antiinflammatory Mediterranean-type stuff. I did my meal plan yesterday and did a big curbside pickup at Whole Foods this morning. Tonight is chicken with a topping that involves red bell peppers, garlic, and pecans. Served over some of the Whole Foods mixed grains. It looks and smells good. Nice to be back in my kitchen cooking stuff.


Shir - May 06, 2024 3:00:53 pm PDT #170 of 4188
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Happy birthday, Karl!

Gud, what everyone said.

Greetings from Seattle!

Oh, crud! I failed to actually schedule anything with Shir when she's in Seattle!

Fear not! For there are almost no plans as of now for Seattle and I'll browse Google to see what's around. Remember how I had no time to plan anything between work and war? That is still the case. So I'll be working tomorrow, but feel free to ping me (number in profile) and we'll plan something!


sj - May 06, 2024 4:58:00 pm PDT #171 of 4188
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I’m home from ltc’s softball game. TCG hasn’t been able to make it to the Monday games because of his work schedule. Meanwhile, this entire group of parents see a disabled mom and an 8 year old struggling with the equipment and chairs and such and not a single one offers to help.