I wear the cheese. It does not wear me.

Cheese Man ,'Chosen'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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P.M. Marc - Oct 03, 2026 11:26:25 am PDT #14214 of 14218
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I recommend anyone thinking of menopause hormone therapy subscribe to The Vajenda to get deep dives into what does and does not have strong evidence supporting it. There's a lot of marketing that turns out to not have a lot of evidence behind it and many risks that have to be weighed.


DebetEsse - Oct 03, 2026 11:33:37 am PDT #14215 of 14218
Woe to the fucking wicked.

I think I may be early days into the whole peri-menopause thing, and the whole business is made more opaque as I have the IUD-of-no-thank-you, but thanks for the rec, Plei!

In other news, I submitted 2 applications yesterday, I have a second-round interview on Monday, and I have the house fully to myself for a week, as everyone else is in Arizona.

So, off to puttering I go.


DavidS - Oct 03, 2026 11:51:24 am PDT #14216 of 14218
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Good luck with that Debet!

Today is the third anniversary of JZ's funeral (not the memorial). Which I only remember because of FB memories.

Got me a little teary taking me back to that moment.

On my way back from coffee and a quick trip to the green grocer, I saw a hummingbird on my way home. I haven't seen one in many months.


erikaj - Oct 03, 2026 12:11:32 pm PDT #14217 of 14218
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

They are supposed to be a sign of good luck. Or maybe JZ sent a message. or your neighborhood has(Apparently) tasty lantana flowers.


Steph L. - Oct 03, 2026 1:14:02 pm PDT #14218 of 14218
That which does not kill you should RUN

I also strongly recommend the Ologies podcast on menopause: [link]

Honestly, I recommend the Ologies podcast in general; it’s well-researched, smart, funny, and profane. There is no bad there.


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