Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DebetEsse - Sep 29, 2026 2:07:47 pm PDT #14149 of 14160
Woe to the fucking wicked.

-t, I hope the surgery goes smoothly, and, yeah, hospitals either go wicked cheap with food or Really Really Not.

That is good sistering, Laura.

So, I was supposed to have a day at home alone today to, like, detox a little. But my preschooler got sent home with head lice at 10 am, so now I'm dealing with that.


-t - Sep 29, 2026 2:09:40 pm PDT #14150 of 14160
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

huge deals on Taylor Farms prepackaged salads.

Ha! Though I also feel like they just shouldn’t be on the shelves at all.

Procedure went well, we gave before and after x-rays, mom was super perky in recovery but came home and went right to sleep. Dad is also sleeping (on the floor so as not to disturb Mom, I guess) and I am hovering around uselessly debating whether I should wake her up and make her do her breathing exercises. So far I feel like sleeping is more important. She did have general anesthesia but also a nerve block for the arm which will probably wear off about 9 pm, so I’ll wake her up before then so she can start taking her pain meds…


JenP - Sep 29, 2026 3:57:23 pm PDT #14151 of 14160

Glad to hear it went smoothly, -t.

Man, the socks I picked today are just sliding around -- like the heel ends up on the ankle. Super annoying. I think I usually wear them with boots, so they're held in place or something. It's possible I have issues.


Matt the Bruins fan - Sep 29, 2026 5:53:33 pm PDT #14152 of 14160
You have to remember that being a 5-time Olympic medalist means Hilary Knight has been playing hockey at an elite level at least 16 years. It's impossible for her to be a teenage girl less than 16 years old, thus the President's complete lack of interest.

Nice to hear things went well with your mom's surgery, -t.


Trudy Booth - Sep 30, 2026 6:51:46 am PDT #14153 of 14160
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

She did have general anesthesia but also a nerve block for the arm which will probably wear off about 9 pm, so I’ll wake her up before then so she can start taking her pain meds…

She's a lucky mommy.


-t - Sep 30, 2026 9:04:37 am PDT #14154 of 14160
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

She got prescribed Tylenol + hydrocodone this time and she's getting side effects :( We're going to try stretching out the dosage schedule and see if that helps, and we'll just switch back to straight Tylenol if necessary, that was working well before. Other than that she's recovering well!

I did not do well getting back to sleep either time so I'm very tired. My niece is coming down today so I'll go home this evening and have a couple of days of just working and sleeping and getting new tires for my car...

We're apparently finally making the desk move that they first said we would probably do in June, I have signed up to move tomorrow. So that's exciting. I can't tell from the map if I will be near the windows (there are windows in this part of the building! Natural light! Possible a view of the parking lot!) or over be the kitchenette, either way seems good.


sj - Sep 30, 2026 9:10:04 am PDT #14155 of 14160
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

-t I’m glad everything went well with your mother’s surgery. Lots of recovery ~ma for her.

Debet, ugh that is in the top ten phone calls I dread receiving from school. Good luck.

I skipped over a bunch of posts because my concentration levels are shit right now, but as always tons of ~ma and love to those who need it.

Things are going well here. ltc seems to be enjoying 5th grade. We’ve had excellent luck with the teachers at her school over the years, and I hope that will extend to middle school next year.


-t - Sep 30, 2026 9:11:28 am PDT #14156 of 14160
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, Debet, I missed your post. I'm sorry, that is such a drag for everyone!


Dana - Sep 30, 2026 9:46:54 am PDT #14157 of 14160
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

You can also alternate Tylenol and ibuprofen every three hours. (IANAD)


-t - Sep 30, 2026 10:02:55 am PDT #14158 of 14160
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

They actually advised us of that, too, but I forgot. Thanks for the reminder!