I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Jul 04, 2024 8:15:26 pm PDT #1405 of 2672
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Oh no, the fog is coming in just in time to thwart the fireworks.

It looked for sure like we were going to have the first clear night in 10 years.


JenP - Jul 04, 2024 8:23:54 pm PDT #1406 of 2672

Dana, super exciting! I mean, yes, a ways off, but... exciting!

We went to see A Quiet Place Day One tonight with two friends. Two of us were bored senseless, one thought it was OK, one thought it was good. So, there you go. Then we had a yum, fun dinner nearby. As expected, our pup doesn't notice the fireworks. Honey badger don't give a shit.

I wish I had taken PTO tomorrow. Oh, well. For sure, it will be a mellow day.

Hope the fireworks were still OK-ish, David.


DavidS - Jul 04, 2024 9:08:35 pm PDT #1407 of 2672
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Hope the fireworks were still OK-ish, David.

I mean, I can hear them. But as a veteran of 38 years of SF Fireworks you're just getting dim glimpses of colored lights in the fog.

I can't emphasize enough how warm and blue skied it was all day, and then just as the sun went down the fog came in with Eddie Izzard described speed. It does roil in quickly when it's in the mood.


Calli - Jul 05, 2024 3:49:05 am PDT #1408 of 2672
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congrats on the move, Dana! I haven’t been to Richmond, but I’ve been to other parts of VA and they were lovely.

I’m sorry about the past few days, erikaj.

Congrats to any UK Buffistas! It looks like the election results went exceptionally well.


JenP - Jul 05, 2024 6:38:15 am PDT #1409 of 2672

I had a really good strawberry and feta salad in Richmond. Twice. I've only been once. We had fun.

Supposed to be a heat index of 109° today. Don't really care to know what that feels like, but I guess I still have to let the pup out. If she'll go.


JenP - Jul 05, 2024 10:10:48 am PDT #1410 of 2672

What I have been thinking lately, and I'm sure it's not an original thought:

Why don't we call it pro forced pregnancy? That's what it is. Pro life is FAR too gentle a term, in addition to being utter bullshit. Do I think they are pro life? No. Do I think they are pro forced pregnancy? Yes.

And, I'm against forced pregnancy. "Pro choice," again, too delicate.

I mean, I do say it that way now, but...

I'm not saying it would change much at all, but call it what it is.


Laura - Jul 05, 2024 10:16:31 am PDT #1411 of 2672
Our wings are not tired.

Exciting, Dana. Richmond has grown up a lot in recent years. I lived there in the 70s for a couple years. The cemetery overlooking the James is really lovely.

Sorry, about the shrouded fireworks, David. Ours were quite nice for a small town. Posted a couple videos on the FB.

(oops, just noticed I hadn't clicked post)

eta: Yes, forced pregnancy is exactly what it is.


Dana - Jul 05, 2024 10:30:02 am PDT #1412 of 2672
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I've seen the term "forced birth" around.


JenP - Jul 05, 2024 11:19:05 am PDT #1413 of 2672

I've seen the term "forced birth" around.

Also good.


DavidS - Jul 05, 2024 11:32:03 am PDT #1414 of 2672
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I've seen the term "forced birth" around.

Usually describing abortion foes as "forced birth extremists" - which I think works.

I've been trying to avoid paying too close attention to the election out of respect for my emotional well being. But between Biden's debate performance, the SCOTUS immunity decision and details of Project 2025's agenda, I'm feeling a dystopia coming on.