Mal: Does.. um.. does this seem kind of tight? Kaylee: Shows off your backside.

'Shindig'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Aug 18, 2026 9:11:05 am PDT #13612 of 14045
Our wings are not tired.

Although I love listening to audiobooks when driving I have not seemed to manage to focus on any of the serial variety. On the list. Perhaps on the drive back to Florida.


Shir - Aug 18, 2026 9:42:09 am PDT #13613 of 14045
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

waves

Oh hi. I haven't been here forever, and you know, there are plenty of reasons. The major one is that in less than three weeks I'll be moving to a different continent (hello, Europe! Specifically, Belgium) to start an academic sabbatical and to work on an MSc in digital humanities, and that's a very big change. I'm both very excited and anxious and having a hard time imagining life in a place that isn't a hellmouth (though, you know, I love it here. It's insane, but it's home, and we can have a far nicer version of it).

I'm bringing the cat with me, which of course is now my number one concern: how the opinionated 16-year-old cat will survive the flight and all these hours in a carrier.

On the bright side, I'll now be a bit closer to y'all. And hopefully with some time to actually, umm, post here more (sorry about not really being here lately, but between war and life and planning a move, well, not much time left for other things).

That's it for the big life update. Love y'all, tons of ~ma of all kinds, and please pray for the cat to survive the move and the airport staff to whisk us through all inspections as fast as possible.


-t - Aug 18, 2026 9:57:49 am PDT #13614 of 14045
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hi Shir! How exciting!


erikaj - Aug 18, 2026 10:28:19 am PDT #13615 of 14045
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

wow, that's wild for the cat. keep something that smells like you in the carrier with him. have a great time in Europe.


Steph L. - Aug 18, 2026 10:48:18 am PDT #13616 of 14045
That which does not kill you should RUN

Shir, that's a big change for you and your cat, but it sounds exciting!

Although I love listening to audiobooks when driving I have not seemed to manage to focus on any of the serial variety. On the list. Perhaps on the drive back to Florida.

Laura, Midnight Burger really is fucking fantastic. It's smart and funny and weird and poignant and consistently entertaining. And there are a lot of episodes, so it would be suited for a New York --> Florida drive.

Okay, time to switch loads of laundry and get back to work.


JenP - Aug 18, 2026 12:02:03 pm PDT #13617 of 14045

Unsurprisingly, I am seconding Steph on the Midnight Burger rec, Laura.

Also, even if just for the car ride, it’s worth it to do the min level of support through Patreon for the month to lose the ads. I listen through Spotify, and it was super easy to connect up.

Though you may become engrossed enough to stay a supporter!


JenP - Aug 18, 2026 12:03:13 pm PDT #13618 of 14045

Cereal:

Shir, that is big and exciting! Keep us posted, and I’m sending good vibes to your kitty. And you!


DavidS - Aug 18, 2026 12:45:28 pm PDT #13619 of 14045
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Shir, that's wonderful and exciting news! Belgium is such a great landing spot. I'm very happy and excited for you.


Steph L. - Aug 18, 2026 1:25:46 pm PDT #13620 of 14045
That which does not kill you should RUN

Also, even if just for the car ride, it’s worth it to do the min level of support through Patreon for the month to lose the ads. I listen through Spotify, and it was super easy to connect up.

Ditto. Ditch those ads!


erikaj - Aug 18, 2026 1:33:49 pm PDT #13621 of 14045
"Somewhere in this building is our talent." Toby Ziegler, my spirit animal

I've heard Belgium is nice, but I haven't been. If transporters ever exist, I have a huge list of things to use it for. We did however have a romaine salad at dinner for the first time in months. Wow, going back to six months ago, go us. (Lee Greenwood is on the monkey crack. Although I hate that there is a very simple part of my system--at least it's not my naughty bits, right-- but maybe it's the mental and emotional equivalent, that might respond to that song, even though I don't like it.)