SO many knuckleheads think Disability Pride is the same as Gay Pride.(I mean, as groups I think we should work together more, since we are all, even leaving aside the whole "less straight than I thought I was" thing, a big "Psych!" to our parents. Right?) But that still doesn't make it less confusing to answer "How many of the millions of disabled people in the United States are in the "Pride Community?" Like, which one, Jeff? Gay people? Disability activists? Gay, bi, trans, or other that are also disability activists? They can be different groups, which also makes some disabled people try to distance from gay people. Which bothers me, even though I can't say that I'm immersed in either crip-activist culture, (Which I think still disappoints my boss) or queer culture, either. Or whatever it is that makes some straight people look at a baby and say things like "THIS one's gonna break some hearts,"(Which is what I think of when "throwing it in our faces" comes up.