Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Jun 25, 2024 2:18:05 pm PDT #1287 of 10013
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I did NOT succeed in getting Matilda up before noon.

However, I DID succeed in getting her to go out to brunch with me when I did get her up.

She's off to therapy in a few and EM is coming by to organize.

We'll all go to dinner tonight with Emmett to Bar Crudo: [link]

Fancy seafood! Happy Hour Oysters!


-t - Jun 25, 2024 2:30:49 pm PDT #1288 of 10013
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Ooh, that is a nice looking happy hour! $2 oysters is pretty good! I still want to be able to get them for a quarter but I know that's not a thing that will happen.


Pix - Jun 26, 2024 11:37:58 am PDT #1289 of 10013
The status is NOT quo.

Hi, friends. We are back from an amazing vacation to Ireland nested inside the trip we took to Connecticut for Dad's memorial. We've been gone 2.5 weeks, the longest we've ever been away from home at the same time. I need to go back and read since I tried to stay mostly offline and just skipped a bunch, but I hope everyone is okay.


Laura - Jun 26, 2024 1:22:37 pm PDT #1290 of 10013
Our wings are not tired.

Welcome back, Pix!


EpicTangent - Jun 26, 2024 3:43:32 pm PDT #1291 of 10013
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I went to Orange County for a couple of days for my birthday (Friday afternoon - Sunday evening) and since I've been back my cat's not acting right. At first I thought she was just punishing me (hiding, pooping next to the litter box) for going away a couple of days, but now I'm concerned about her. She hasn't eaten in a couple of days I think and when she moves from one spot to another (still mostly avoiding me), she's moving slow and staggering a bit. I think I should try to get her to a vet, except she's still hard to catch and I don't want to drive her into a panic when she's obviously feeling poorly (half-grown, semi-feral when we took her in - still not a fan of people AT ALL and hasn't been to the vet since she was spayed [that whole not being able to catch her thing]). Right now I'm just leaving her alone and making sure she's got water near by if she wants it. Monday and yesterday I was still hoping she might bounce back, now I don't know what to do ... if anything.


Pix - Jun 26, 2024 3:58:40 pm PDT #1292 of 10013
The status is NOT quo.

Epic, I hate to say this, but I do think you should take her to the vet. Cats not eating for more than a couple of days can lead to serious problems, including pancreatitis. If they can give her fluids tonight, that will help her recover.


P.M. Marc - Jun 26, 2024 4:15:43 pm PDT #1293 of 10013
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yeah, unfortunately, those are all red go to the vet flags.


-t - Jun 26, 2024 4:19:06 pm PDT #1294 of 10013
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Epic! That does sound concerning. I hope you can get her to the vet without too much problem.


EpicTangent - Jun 26, 2024 5:07:13 pm PDT #1295 of 10013
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I'll get the carrier from the garage and see if I can get her into it. This is really a shitty start to my 53rd year. (See message in Beep Me)


Sheryl - Jun 26, 2024 5:11:47 pm PDT #1296 of 10013
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

The heat wave continues here.The drive home wasn't too bad, considering that the a/c is not working well and the temps were in the 90s. Probably helps that my car is parked in a garage all day, away from the sun.