Whatever happened to the still beating heart of a virgin? No one has any standards anymore.

Giles ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Apr 02, 2026 4:39:52 pm PDT #12196 of 12492
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

This Shiksa loves matzo year-round. Its a giant cracker - what's not to love?

HELL YEAH!

Ooo. I should have some right now. I like to slather it with butter and just nom on down.


Laura - Apr 03, 2026 6:09:54 am PDT #12197 of 12492
Our wings are not tired.

It's Scola Day! Happiest birthday wishes, Tom. May this day be filled with delight and may the year to come be all you hope for and more.


-t - Apr 03, 2026 6:19:30 am PDT #12198 of 12492
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Many happy returns of the day, Tom!


Calli - Apr 03, 2026 6:20:52 am PDT #12199 of 12492
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Happy birthday, Tom!


Steph L. - Apr 03, 2026 6:39:20 am PDT #12200 of 12492
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Happy Happy Birthday, Tom!!!


lisah - Apr 03, 2026 7:33:46 am PDT #12201 of 12492
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, Tom!!!


JenP - Apr 03, 2026 7:39:59 am PDT #12202 of 12492

Happy Birthday, Tom!


Tom Scola - Apr 03, 2026 7:40:15 am PDT #12203 of 12492
They pay me in WOIMS

Thanks, everyone!

Oh, hey, Bebe Neuwirth just like one of my photos on Bluesky.


Steph L. - Apr 03, 2026 8:01:26 am PDT #12204 of 12492
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oh, hey, Bebe Neuwirth just like one of my photos on Bluesky.

That's pretty cool!

I don't want to complain (too much) about our health insurance, because in the past 6 years Tim has had 4 major surgeries and then cancer treatment, and we aren't bankrupt, and in the hellscape that passes for the United States' healthcare system, that's honestly huge. We're fine, financially; we had to slow down our retirement contributions somewhat, but when the alternative is literally bankruptcy many times over, again, I can't complain.

But I am going to complain! Just a small one, though. Our insurance is so fucking weird about telehealth visits. They covered them during the first couple of Covid years, and then decided the pandemic was over and they wouldn't cover telehealth any more. I legitimately forgot about that, had a telehealth visit last month, and now I have a $150 bill because insurance is like, fuck you, we'll cover surgeries and chemo and radiation and your expensive migraine meds and rheumatoid arthritis meds, but god help you if you want to sit on your couch and talk to your doctor via Zoom. Seriously, my dudes? You baffle me.

Again, given the choice, I'm super glad to not be bankrupt from all the surgeries and cancer treatment, but it's just fucking weird that telehealth is a no-no.


DavidS - Apr 03, 2026 8:03:45 am PDT #12205 of 12492
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Happy birthday, Tom!

Tep, that's some kinda bullshit.