I know I'm a bad poet, but I'm a good man. All I ask is that... is that you try to see me—

William ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


kat - Mar 03, 2026 1:28:54 pm PST #11818 of 11835
"The thing about dorks is we stick together. Mostly for gaming purposes but also because it wards off jocks, gutter clowns and other Stephen King-like threats." - Lauren Okie

Interesting. I have it installed and often take the suggestions, and well, often ignore it too. But it does catch stupid type stuff quite efficiently. (it had a bunch of suggestions on the pasted comment)

Grammarly definitely catches the stupid stuff, which means most of what I'm writing. The issue is that basically beiges everyone's voice so we all sound the same. Kids with beige writing voices already (meaning they write in the academic voice that is correct, but dull), do sound like AI. So for them to prove they aren't AI is a lot of work. Of course most voices are created by writing quirks (like my love a semi-colon).

I do use AI. Less now than last year. I spend a fair amount working through an idea with AI, but my urge to have it make me more efficient has waned. I actually am less concerned about being increasingly productive for a system that just wants to grind me up and spit me out for as cheap as possible.

msbelle, Grace took English 101. I created a GPT for her to use to help her think through her long paper but it wouldn't give her answers or write anything for her. Would ask her leading questions though.


kat - Mar 03, 2026 1:31:47 pm PST #11819 of 11835
"The thing about dorks is we stick together. Mostly for gaming purposes but also because it wards off jocks, gutter clowns and other Stephen King-like threats." - Lauren Okie

I definitely didn't see the lunar eclipse, but the Griffith Observatory's video of it is kinda cool. [link]


-t - Mar 03, 2026 6:35:54 pm PST #11820 of 11835
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Trying another book club at the same bookstore tonight (I have another this weekend at a different bookstore - so social!) This one is a weekly thing for several months on The Book of Alchemy with book discussions alternating with maybe journaling sessions or crafting or whatever. I told the bookstore owner ai’d be out of town for a month and she wasn’t fazed, and I bought another blank journal (I assume it’s blank, haven’t actually opened it) to go with the book. I think it will be good, and if every week gets to be too much it sounds like just not showing up occasionally would not be terrible. We’ll see.

I need to not eat out every week between work and book club, though. Even with happy hour prices this is unsustainable.


kat - Mar 03, 2026 8:01:11 pm PST #11821 of 11835
"The thing about dorks is we stick together. Mostly for gaming purposes but also because it wards off jocks, gutter clowns and other Stephen King-like threats." - Lauren Okie

-t, I've been working through the Book of Alchemy with my students. It's been enjoyable to write!


Steph L. - Mar 03, 2026 9:00:05 pm PST #11822 of 11835
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Went up a dose on Zepbound, and godddddd the insomnia is real. I need Tim to clonk me in the back of the head with a frying pan and knock me out Looney Tunes style.


-t - Mar 03, 2026 9:02:23 pm PST #11823 of 11835
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Cool! First meeting was pretty nice. It was a *lot* of people and apparently there are regulars who told the owner in advance that they wanted to do this but wouldn’t be able to make it tonight, so there will presumably be even more next time, but everyone seems nice and interested in what other people have to say, I think it’ll be good.

Gonna mess up my watching Josh Johnson YouTubes but I can catch up on Wednesdays while I WFH


-t - Mar 03, 2026 9:04:00 pm PST #11824 of 11835
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Getting the dosage right on frying pan head clonking is very hard, Tep. Pretty bad side effects. Hopefully some alternative treatment will be effective


meara - Mar 03, 2026 9:32:20 pm PST #11825 of 11835

Insomnia is a side effect I hadn't heard about! Interesting! I've mostly just had the occasional nausea, and burping.

I realized this week I went dancing tonight (Tuesday), have a meeting for the dance programming committee tomorrow, Thursday I am DJing, Friday I am dancing, and Saturday I am DJing. No wonder I feel like there's too much dancing stuff going on! (Thankfully next week it'll be back to our usual just twice a week, not five times!)


Shir - Mar 04, 2026 6:17:37 am PST #11826 of 11835
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

(Still OK, nothing new to report. Hanging in there).


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 04, 2026 7:24:50 am PST #11827 of 11835
You have to remember that being a 5-time Olympic medalist means Hilary Knight has been playing hockey at an elite level at least 16 years. It's impossible for her to be a teenage girl less than 16 years old, thus the President's complete lack of interest.

It looks like a road crew is finally getting around to doing something about the gravel-filled sewer repair hole that's been in front of my house for weeks. So far it's just removing the metal plates partially covering the mess, but I'm crossing my fingers that repaving is on the agenda sometime today (rather than digging things back up).