Angel: Connor, this is Spike and Illyria. Guys, this is Connor. Connor: Hi. umm...I like your outfit. Illyria: Your body warms. This one is lusting after me. Connor: Oh...no, I--I--it's just that it's the outfit. I guess I've had a thing for older women. Angel: They were supposed to fix that.

'Origin'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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Laura - Jan 15, 2026 6:47:10 am PST #11109 of 11114
Our wings are not tired.

Roll them double nickels and send out a cheer for msbelle's birthday today! AI tells me that the spiritual meaning of 55 relates to change, freedom, and fulfillment in life. Sounds like a plan. I hope you are being spoiled today and that the coming year is all that you hope for and more.


Trudy Booth - Jan 15, 2026 7:12:41 am PST #11110 of 11114
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

and while we were chatting my uncle called me back and left a message like he forgot we talked. Very weird.
Assuming he's 70+ I'd check that sucker for a UTI. Then maybe elevated Ammonia levels. Ask me how I know! I've recently begun to wonder what percentage of older people assumed to have dementia have one of those.

Usually they are surgery, surgery, surgery. With certain specialties I feel like the PAs and NPs are doing so much emotional lifting for the surgeon (source, I have worked for 20 years helping NPs to assist surgeons). Sometimes the stereotypes are real.
According to an old roommie of mine who is a surgical tech Dr. Oz is great and communicative, everybody loves the guy, and if you need a surgery he performs get him if you can. So... back to surgery, Dr. Oz. Fucking do THAT!


lisah - Jan 15, 2026 7:33:55 am PST #11111 of 11114
Punishingly Intricate

My knee ortho always has a med student or resident working with her who comes in to talk to me first and they are usually kind of doofuses (one was shocked that someone of my advanced age wouldn’t want to be addressed as “Mrs. LastName.”


JenP - Jan 15, 2026 8:17:47 am PST #11112 of 11114

one was shocked that someone of my advanced age wouldn’t want to be addressed as “Mrs. LastName.”

That's so funny! Of course, my mother was always annoyed when a doctor didn't call her Mrs. Prior at first... but, to be fair, she was born in 1928. I can count on one hand the times I've been called Mrs. Anything. But Matt often got called Mr. Prior when I was in the hospital.

Feeling better if tired today. Yesterday was all day in bed at what felt like 1.2 Earth standard gravity.

And, most importantly...

Happy Birthday, msbelle! Enjoy your day, and may the year ahead be a good one.


Laura - Jan 15, 2026 8:19:33 am PST #11113 of 11114
Our wings are not tired.

Excellent post number lisah! I’m a few decades older and I think the only time I get called Mrs Holt is from DH’s players, which is appropriate.

Medical staff should ask how you prefer to be addressed!


-t - Jan 15, 2026 8:28:27 am PST #11114 of 11114
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

He's only 68, Trudy. And I re-listened to his message and maybe he was referring to my dad not answering his phone, which is still weird but more in line with uncle's usual weirdness.


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