java, that sounds like an excellent staycation, and with bonus F2Fs!
Pix, I know your found family and friends Thanksgivings must be so lovely and appreciated--awesome of you guys to do that.
I am on my last day here at my sister's--just packing up now. It's been super low key and fun, and DH has gotten more family time with his family than I've ever seen him do, and, while exhausting, I think he really enjoyed it. I spent some time with them, too, and that was nice.
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My deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss of your mother, Nilly. May her memory bring you comfort.