I don't really have a security blanket... unless you count Mr. Pointy.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Sep 19, 2021 1:02:48 pm PDT #9389 of 29994
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Yay for negative tests!

Mr. S was horrible all day yesterday, ending with him refusing to go to sleep and being extremely disruptive. He didn't fall asleep until sometime around midnight, and still woke up before 8 this morning. Sigh...

Parents update: My mom was moved to a rehab center this week. My dad was still in the hospital as of Friday, but thinks he will be transferred on Monday.


Laura - Sep 19, 2021 1:22:06 pm PDT #9390 of 29994
Our wings are not tired.

Sheryl, I do hope he is transferred soon. I am sure it is easier on them to be in the same place.


beekaytee - Sep 19, 2021 2:19:10 pm PDT #9391 of 29994
Compassionately intolerant

Hey Laura!

I've been thinking about moving abroad for a couple of years, specifically to open a series of businesses stemming from a retreat center. It's a grand dream and I'm loving the planning.

Initially, I planned on Ireland because you can buy amazing properties for about what a fancy condo costs around here. But. Things are so, so tense there, both because of Brexit and on-going internal troubles that seem like another never-ending war.

Portugal has much of what I am looking for and the time seems right.

A Peace March Friend lives there now, though he is retired...in contrast to my plan to never retire.

Have you ever been?


beekaytee - Sep 19, 2021 2:20:21 pm PDT #9392 of 29994
Compassionately intolerant

Oh Sheryl, I hope the transfer works out in the best possible way.


Laura - Sep 19, 2021 2:21:11 pm PDT #9393 of 29994
Our wings are not tired.

No, I have not been, but now I will have a great reason to visit! Very exciting news.


Steph L. - Sep 19, 2021 2:25:36 pm PDT #9394 of 29994
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

bonny, that sounds like an amazing plan!


JenP - Sep 19, 2021 3:52:14 pm PDT #9395 of 29994

bee, that sounds amazing! I've never visited but always wanted to. A college friend and I had been talking about it, then... pandemic, etc.

Lunch with friends was lovely. I am tired now.

Did finally pin down a week for a beach "workcation" with a couple of friends, last week in October. I like the ocean; I do not like crowds.


beekaytee - Sep 19, 2021 4:04:39 pm PDT #9396 of 29994
Compassionately intolerant

There will be plenty of room for visitors! It really is going to be great and there is a very good chance I have investors ready to support the vision. But, rather than wait for all the dominos to fall into place, I am going to go, get settled and scout for the best locations.

Portugal is #17 in the world for wifi coverage, so I'll be able to keep my client base and fold them into the new businesses.

Plus? 3 international airports. [wink]


askye - Sep 19, 2021 4:49:23 pm PDT #9397 of 29994
Thrive to spite them

David & JZ-- Matilda is an awesome kid. I wish I had known someone like her back when I was in high school.

bee Portugal sounds like it will be an amazing adventure.

msbelle- I tried to rescue the stew but .. I finally added lots of hot sauce and cheese to my bowl and it made it edible. M enjoyed it.

played more minecraft with E. Even saw my brother when he came to tell E it was time for dinner. My brother asked me how I liked Minecraft and I was like..well....I do really well and knock people off a platform with a fish but that's about my only success (that's a minigame you can play, it suits my style of fighting which is race in and wail on things) and I told him I thought E would like Warframe once he was old enough, I think it's rated M but there's not a lot of real violence , it would mainly be him being in the general chat with adults that would be the bigger issue I think.

At work they announced the company is going to give bonuses this year, tied into attendance. If you are part or full time and work 35 + hours between Nov Week 1 and Dec Week 2 you earn an extra $50 a week , paid out on Christmas Eve (I guess direct deposit) so up to $350. And then for part time working 20-35 hours a week for that time frame it's $25. I guess they are trying to retain people and get the most hours out of them. Since I haven't been scheduled less than 39 hours in a long time I'm not worried about qualifying for the bonus money/


DavidS - Sep 19, 2021 5:01:17 pm PDT #9398 of 29994
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I have not been to Portugal, but I will note (a) that when my friends Gary and Phil went tramping around Europe for six months, their two favorite places were the bookends - Portugal and Turkey; and, also, I had friends who honeymooned in Lisbon and absolutely loved it.

Also, easy access to Spain, Morocco and the Mediterranean plus 2.5 hour flight to either London or Paris.