My heart expands / 'tis grown a bulge in't / inspired by / your beauty effulgent.

William ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Sep 11, 2021 3:47:44 pm PDT #9148 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That seems reasonable to me


Jesse - Sep 11, 2021 3:56:54 pm PDT #9149 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh yeah, I was feeling sick before I got my negative test back..... Good luck, Dillo!


Laura - Sep 11, 2021 4:45:00 pm PDT #9150 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

And I am SO MAD that low-carb/keto makes me feel better, because we have a professional baker living with us.

Yeah, my niece is a baker and there is no sense even visiting her bakery. Sniff

Negative~ma for Dillo! They have a sign at the local pharmacy that says they have the home tests. We were wondering what kind of shelf life they have since it might be a good thing to have on hand.


Jesse - Sep 11, 2021 4:52:17 pm PDT #9151 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, they have dates on them, and they are at least months out, although now I can't remember specifically.


meara - Sep 11, 2021 5:08:22 pm PDT #9152 of 30000

I haven’t seen any of the home tests but if I did I think I might buy a couple.

Atropa, I actually am friends with Adi! But have never been to them for hair, I didn’t know they did a lot of color!


Jesse - Sep 11, 2021 5:11:35 pm PDT #9153 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

At my CVS, they are behind the counter, so you might not know they were there, for what that's worth.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 11, 2021 7:10:39 pm PDT #9154 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

From a ways back: t Half gallon of sweet apple cider for $11.95? Wow.

After living in the Deep South for more than 11 years, I would happily pay twice that price for real, fresh-pressed, no-preservative apple cider. It's one of the things I miss most about New England. Though we did find an apple orchard outside of Asheville a few years back (maybe 2017?) that had cider - we bought like 4 gallons of it. And they had fresh cider donuts! I think about that place a lot.

Still living in Texas. It's fucking weird here. I thought I'd be prepared for truly shitty state government, having lived in Louisiana under Bobby Jindal, but Greg Abbott and Ken Paxton really take the cake for malfeasance, misogyny, racism, fascism, and greed.

Got to see some friends who evacuated New Orleans for Austin, so that was bittersweet.

We have a new cat, a foster fail ginger we have named Milton in honor of The Suicide Squad character.

Need to get on top of the flu/shingles vaccine soon.


Atropa - Sep 11, 2021 8:47:31 pm PDT #9155 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Ha! I should have known you’d know Adi, meara. Go to them for all your hair needs.


Theodosia - Sep 12, 2021 1:21:55 pm PDT #9156 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Spent a week in VT once again with my friend of nearly 40 years, who still has the ability to make me cringe in embarrassment and/or wonder.

One of the latest examples: I had to instruct her how to light a match... she'd never done it before. (She's 65.)

Her idea of dieting is to weigh herself every morning. And then be happy that she's dropped a half pound between one day and the next.

She is scared of all insects, and paranoid about them getting into the house. (I wisely did not tell her about the thumbnail-size wolf spider I caught and relocated outside.) She wanted us to bag up all food waste in plastic before putting them in the garbage -- OK, so it's her time share/place that I'm visiting, I'll abide by her rules. Except that she then puts unclean dishes in the sink and leaves near empty soda cans all over the place.

She will happily tell me all the details of the pedigrees of her dogs (past and present) for hours straight. She's mournful that the pedigrees of the dogs her parents owned when she was small can't be found.

There really are many things to like about her, not the least of which is the miracle that she's actually taken Covid seriously (and as an obese cancer survivor she sure should) so I'm sure some of the endless chatter is the result of being pent up for 18 months in an apartment with only an elderly misbehaving deaf dog and finally having another human being along for companionship.

A week would have been too much but she sleeps really late (11 is crack of dawn for her) so I had enough alone time to recuperate.


Theodosia - Sep 12, 2021 1:22:50 pm PDT #9157 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Seriously -- NEVER had lit a match. I got her to do it without burning her fingers, but I made her stand over the bricks of the fireplace in the time-share when she did it, just in case.