I don't care if it is an orgy of death, there's still such a thing as a napkin.

Willow ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


juliana - Sep 10, 2021 10:34:05 am PDT #9104 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

This is why I do my own haircolor. (I have a stylist I trust completely and who I'm sure would do a great job, but...a box of Colorista bleach + tube of dye from Sally's is less than $30. Even if the salon dye job looks great, it's not going to look 10x as great.)

That's me, too. Plus, I know what kind of color I want, and I don't have to try to put it in words to someone else. (Red. No, redder. FAKE red. 40s nail polish red. With a hint of purple. RED.)

meara, I'd go, but I'd be super-clear upfront about what you do and do not want, and ask them if they think they can do that. If they're iffy, then bail.


lisah - Sep 10, 2021 10:40:34 am PDT #9105 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Definitely go and give them a chance to fix it. Do you have pics you can bring to show them what you want?


shrift - Sep 10, 2021 10:46:55 am PDT #9106 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

meara, sorry you didn't get the amazing pink hair you deserve. I have no idea how to dye my own hair, so I hope I can find someone new who won't fuck it up when I have a chance to get mine colored again.

I think I can get the flu shot at my doctor's office, but they just want me to walk in during lab hours and won't let me schedule it, which I find aggravating. I need to go to the hardware store to replace the light bulbs in my kitchen, so perhaps I will pop in on the way and get that done today since I'm on call for jury service all next week.

I haven't been following a low carb diet, but I have been trying a lower carb diet rather than an all of the carbs diet. I definitely haven't been strict about it because I don't see much point in the endeavor if I can't maintain it long-term, but I've lost about 8-9 pounds so far.

Someone tell me to work.

Jesus Christ, I can't even get myself to work. Or, rather, I'm procrastinating on work with other work. I even disassembled the vacuum cleaner yesterday because I couldn't remember when I last cleaned the filters. And yet I'm still not working on 2022 business planning, probably because of the overwhelming feeling that I have no idea what I'm doing.


Steph L. - Sep 10, 2021 10:48:13 am PDT #9107 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

3rd shots of the COVID vaccine to immunocompromised people.

I'm going to stab Tim if his immunocompromised little self doesn't get a booster soon. (Speaking of not being able to force people to do things that are good for them.)


Dana - Sep 10, 2021 10:51:58 am PDT #9108 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I am sluggishly working. Like a slug.


Steph L. - Sep 10, 2021 10:52:40 am PDT #9109 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I haven't been following a low carb diet, but I have been trying a lower carb diet rather than an all of the carbs diet.

I need to do that for my IBS. Although I'm also 98% sure a big contributor to the 2+ months of GI unrest is new unfun lactose intolerance. I switched to lactose-free milk and 1/2 and 1/2 for my coffee and things have calmed down enormously. I'm going to cautiously re-introduce cheese and see what happens (apparently some cheeses aren't problematic for some people with lactose intolerance, but it sounds like a lot of trial and error is involved).


meara - Sep 10, 2021 11:18:21 am PDT #9110 of 30000

I mean, I did show a picture but the issue is more “some of the hair came out a little more hot pink than I wanted and some chunks are kind of pale peach”—not sure a picture will help, it was more inconsistency in the dyeing. If it was all one color but just not the color I wanted that would be different—like maybe I didn’t explain or maybe my hair didn’t want to be that color or whatever. And there was an issue with the bottom few inches not lightning like they should’ve—old dye—and if it had been that part was a different color, again, maybe skill but maybe just deal with it. But I have streaks of hot pink, streaks of pink pink, and streaks of peach. :(


-t - Sep 10, 2021 11:35:39 am PDT #9111 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Man, we've been working on 2022 business planning for a few months now and it continues to be Who-the-fuck-knows? as far as I'm concerned. We barely know what's happening now and have our fingers crossed to get through the rest of 2021 without huge surprises. Probably 2022 will be different, but how exactly? People have opinions but they are just making shit up.

Have you tried that lactaid stuff, Tep? I know some people swear by it. My dairy issues are some other thing so I have no personal experience.

Man, I feel very lucky that I got excellent color when I just picked a salon down the street and took whatever stylist was available and told her I wanted a streak of blue and I trusted her to make it look good. Not nearly as expensive, either, but if I was doing my full head it might have been. I don't know what you should do, meara - if she can make it better that would be great, and you are only out time (which is aggravating) but it sounds like you have some concerns that she could in fact make it worse? So I don't know.


Laura - Sep 10, 2021 11:50:32 am PDT #9112 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It might be worth the time to go back and explain the issues. For that price tag you should get what you wanted. You are paying for hair coloring expertise and they should provide it.


-t - Sep 10, 2021 11:56:14 am PDT #9113 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Argh, our "casual meet & greet" with Sales next Tuesday has gone from being lunch with additional meeting before hand to us needing to be there at 8:15am to sit through the whole morning session. Doable, but aggravating, not least because now I'll have to make the drive during rush hour (I have no idea what rush hour is like these days, but probably not nonexistent) after my usual Tuesday 6am work start because the stuff I do then will still need to be done. Bah.

Also, casually blocking out 5 hours of my time for their convenience with just a couple days notice is just intrinsically annoying but that is how Sales is, to a large degree. I would say "Men! and their Sales!" at this point but it's all women in leadership roles over there now.