I said I'm sorry. I've made mistakes, but fear was never one of them.

Lilah ,'Conviction (1)'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Karl - Aug 23, 2021 11:21:57 pm PDT #8686 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

I'll just stand over here with Scrappy. (Hi, Scrappy, lovely to see your pixels.)


lisah - Aug 24, 2021 6:19:31 am PDT #8687 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

My Dad's been in the hospital since Saturday evening when he had a fall and then was very out of it. He didn't seem to hurt himself falling but they haven't figured out what's going on yet other than not a stroke. He's ok in the sense that he's not in pain and has been eating well but he's pretty confused. He keeps thinking school is starting "tomorrow"and he doesn't know what grade he's teaching yet (he's been retired from teaching for 15 years or so). I feel so bad for him. It's like a stress dream you can't wake up from.


Tom Scola - Aug 24, 2021 6:34:54 am PDT #8688 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Lisa, I’m so sorry, that sounds horrible.

I signed up for the class this morning.

From a while ago:

To be fair, the kind of work that a class is is very different than the kind of work therapy is

The class involves talking about my art, which involves opening up about myself and leaving myself open to criticism. It’s a lot more like therapy than you may think. The actual photography work I’m not worried about.

Oh, and Debet, congrats! on that thing that you mentioned on a different, green web site.


-t - Aug 24, 2021 6:48:47 am PDT #8689 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oof, lisah, that sounds rough. Your poor dad, and you. "like a stress dream you can't wake up from" is a powerful description

Way to take a brave step, Scola! I hope it's a good experience.


Jessica - Aug 24, 2021 7:13:35 am PDT #8690 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

Also, that personality quiz informs me I am 84% Willow Rosenberg, Tina Belcher and Will Byers and 83% Charlie from Perks, which is all quite nice, but also 81% Bran from GoT and 76% Georgiana Fucking Darcy and Buster Bluth, which HOW DARE. Also only 71% Radar O'Reilly or Chidi Anagonye, which I question. But at least only 24% Mister Wickham and 19% Gaston, so that's a relief.

I had to scroll down pretty far to get to a character/show I actually knew, but once I did I got 81% for Ben Wyatt AND Twilight Sparkle, which, honestly, I find incredibly flattering!


JenP - Aug 24, 2021 8:15:57 am PDT #8691 of 30000

Awesome, Scola. Also, awesome Scola.

Lisah, sending love and healing vibes your and your dad and family's way. That is a very scary and apt description. I'm so sorry this is happening.

Also on the JZ love train.

Meara, I hope it's a no news is good news scenario... though I understand the worry.

How's new home, Scrappy?


DebetEsse - Aug 24, 2021 8:49:28 am PDT #8692 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Scola, that makes sense. And thanks, though I'm planning on waiting till things firm up a bit before talking about it because everything is stressful omg and I just cannot even with dealing with all the people.

lisah, I hope that he can get out of his loop.

I got 93% Ender Wiggin, 92% Ariadne from Inception (whose character traits I basically remember not at all), 91% Michale Scofield (Prison Break) (???), and then my 90%s: Hermione, Gandalf, Daniel Jackson (Sam Carter comes in at 89. Are they basically the same character?), and Jemma Simmons. I am also equally Remus Lupin and Elizabeth Bennet (87%) and just slightly more Jean-Luc Picard (88%). So, there's that. I would take it again to see about how the questions they sample influence the results, but that is a rabbit hole I do not need.


sj - Aug 24, 2021 9:35:24 am PDT #8693 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I don’t think I can accurately assess myself to do that quiz.

lisah, ~ma for your father.


Laura - Aug 24, 2021 9:40:02 am PDT #8694 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Lisah, sending positive vibes for a resolution soon for your dad. How scary and frustrating. Good that there was no stroke!

Tom. I hope it is a positive experience for you. Good job taking that step!


-t - Aug 24, 2021 9:40:23 am PDT #8695 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I found that pretty challenging, sj, and doubt I did a good job of it. But my results seem reasonable anyhow.