Giles! I accidentally killed Spike. That's okay, right?

Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


shrift - Aug 01, 2021 10:40:58 am PDT #8248 of 29995
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Sorry about the flight shenanigans, Laura. I too made it home. I've been out running errands and now I'm going to collapse on the couch for a while.


Tom Scola - Aug 01, 2021 12:45:57 pm PDT #8249 of 29995
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

And Aims friend just posted on FB: she had a fainting spell, she’s back in the hospital for more tests, but otherwise OK.


Sheryl - Aug 01, 2021 4:16:38 pm PDT #8250 of 29995
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Gary and Mr. S tested negative for the virus, which makes life easier.

It's been a lousy day here. Mr. S woke up early and has been a pain all day. So much for a happy anniversary. (We did have a nice dinner-take out, of course.)


Laura - Aug 01, 2021 5:12:24 pm PDT #8251 of 29995
Our wings are not tired.

Happy anniversary, Sheryl!

I had a lazy day making up for yesterday's long day. Canceled on seeing my son and family. He wanted to go walking around the downtown of his city. I told him that wouldn't work for me because I didn't feel good and his dad had an ankle issue. He said we could eat out and I said that was fine as long as it was an outdoor restaurant because Florida is so Covidy. He said the outside places were too crowded. No kidding! Because people don't want to eat inside. All I wanted was to visit at his house or mine and catch up, see the grandkid and give him stuff I brought back from NY. Oh well, another time. He is seriously rigid.


Beverly - Aug 01, 2021 6:13:57 pm PDT #8252 of 29995
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Ever tempted to just wrap him in duct tape for a while, Laura?


Calli - Aug 01, 2021 6:31:00 pm PDT #8253 of 29995
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

And Aims friend just posted on FB: she had a fainting spell, she’s back in the hospital for more tests, but otherwise OK.

Thank you, Tom. I saw Aimee’s picture in FB, but no context, and I came here to check.


JenP - Aug 02, 2021 4:56:58 am PDT #8254 of 29995

In my dream this morning, I was new in a job and screwed up payroll. jesseh worked there, too, and stayed late to help me fix it. Thanks, man! You're a mensch.


askye - Aug 02, 2021 6:55:23 am PDT #8255 of 29995
Thrive to spite them

d- thanks for the suggestions. I'll have to look into the neck ac since that looks like it would be the best work option.

I wore my mask most of the day yesterday. It wasn't as hot although it was humid. This week will be unseasonably cool with highs in the mid 80s most of the week but very humid. I'm wondering if the mask mandate will come back for work. I'm looking around to find some options for cloth masks and I need to get some filters. The disposable masks we have at work can be ok but sometimes they seem to shed easily. I was wearing them almost exclusively but the quality varied on them .

N95 masks aren't a good choice since they can make breathing harder and I don't need that on top of everything else.

More co workers are wearing masks but not as many. I'm wondering if they will reinstate the mask mandates.

The rehab center my cousin is at reported 2 cases of Covid. Don't know who spread it there and so they are quarantined for 2 weeks. I guess 1 week now. His girlfriend was going to go and check on him and make extensive notes since she was worried about his care before this. Being 2 hours away she can only see him once a week or so.

Mom is going back down to FL. This will be her third time. She doesn't want to but my aunt really really doesn't need to be caring for anyone or anything st this point. But there is no other option except foster care for my cousin's son. I'm going to call him the Kid. (He , his parents, and my cousin's GF all have the same first initial otherwise I'd use those).cousin's girlfriend would take the Kid but that means dealing with his mom and she doesn't want to do that or subject her kids to that woman.

The Kid's mom's sentencing hearing is this week. I hate that I am asking this but prayers that she gets a long sentence would be appreciated. I don't really want her in jail (she needs therapy and rehab to get sober) but it would be the best for all her children.

Mom's birthday is Friday and E will be at the end of his summer trip to NC for camp and relative visiting. I had asked for Sat off and couldn't get it and by the time I realized it was too late to ask for Thursday off so I wi only get to see E on Friday. (Tomorrow is my other day off but he is with his other grandma). Part of one day . I feel like a crappy aunt. But I'm planning to go to VA to visit for a long weekend in the spring when he has a teacher planning day or something. Covid allowing.

I feel weird about seeing him and my parents and worry maybe I should skip It in case I expose them to something but I can't miss this. We are all vaccinated and I know we could still get sick but ...I need this.

I'm still planning to go to FL in October. Unless it gets really bad. Even then I might figure out how to go and not see anyone. I mean I don't plan on going anywhere really once I'm there. To see my aunt and Grandma...even if I have to stay 10 feet away just to see them in person.

I need to go home and St Tesrea beach is my home more than any other place I've lived. I'll feel better once I can sink my feet in the sand and gave the waves lapping around my feet.


Laura - Aug 02, 2021 8:06:59 am PDT #8256 of 29995
Our wings are not tired.

Ever tempted to just wrap him in duct tape for a while, Laura?

OMG, that is the best idea. Also, his brother would love it.

Thanks, man! You're a mensch.

Right! She is indeed.

I hate that I am asking this but prayers that she gets a long sentence would be appreciated

Yes, I get that. Also, I know my brother uses the 'cooling' t-shirts and says they help. He has medical issues with the heat. Cool packs on the wrists and neck from time to time are good too.

The pool and patio work is rapidly coming to a conclusion. They are putting gutters up now too. They did the gutter in like 2 hours! DH thinks we can head to NY Friday, but I think that timeline is madness.


EpicTangent - Aug 02, 2021 10:18:05 am PDT #8257 of 29995
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Driveby: Came in after a 3-day weekend to find we have been sold...again. Got a meeting in a few minutes so they can reassure us that we'll all be fine (until they start deciding who's "redundant". Lucky me, I'm the only person in my dept these days, so I should be safe from RIF).