What Cindy said.

Hugs to you Kristin. Dealing with that sort of situation is wearying, and a marathon rather than a sprint.

Pix, that is a tough situation.

 But what I did forget was that I ran out. So I got to today as the last day of the week, picked up the bottle, and went “oh crap”. Ok, nbd, I can get it at the pharmacy tomorrow afternoon if I call it in now. Then I look and realize I have no refills left. Damnit!!!

I’m waiting for my Dr office to call me back right now.

I've been fully vaxed for months now, so I'm comfortable with my own safety. My big thing is trying to make sure I respect the wishes of the business that I'm entering. My default is to wear a mask unless I see a sign specifically stating that no masks are required for vaccinated guests. If there is no indication for masking requirements I assume that it is best to wear a mask. A huge part of it for me is trying to respect the business owners and their employees.

I happily wear masks when asked/it is not clearly stated that vaxed are cleared for no mask (I would require one if I had a business) and their employees have also been given the time and opportunity to get vaccines.

Alternately, I mask when I think I am in a sketch environment. Sketch environments not only meaning Covid so much as people who don’t believe in Covid and thus I don’t trust them for anything communicable. I don't want an illness that could be avoided.

So .. frequently sanitizing in public places is a good idea!

Right?!

Had to go to an Urgent Care this morning as last night’s can opener fail, and subsequent efforts to pry the can open ended in thumb bloodshed and eventually a doctor using the people version of crazy glue to close my thumb up as the location was bad for stitches. I had to buy finger cots for working the rest of this week.

I will be joining Kristin in Florida hopefully soon. This is the week I'm heading to Montana to meet my birth mother and half sisters and their families and we'd both really been looking forward to it. Kristin is insisting I still go, so I'm heading up there tomorrow.

After that I have a few loose ends to tie up for work since, thankfully, things have picked back up for my company. Then I will also make sure that we have things like pets and house covered here in LA before I can head to FL. Both of her parents have treated me like a son and I don't have my parents around any longer so I really want to be there to help, and I'm worried about Kristin and her dad.

I'm so glad that you are finally getting to meet your birth mother, ND. And that you are there for the rest of your family (how you are family doesn't matter so much as the fact that you are family) as well.

Right now I just want to be in three places at once. That would be helpful.

I'm glad you're going to Montana for that meeting, ND, though I'm sorry for the timing for you both.

All the empathy in what you're dealing with with your dad Kristin and Drew - hard doesn't begin to cover it.

Exciting that you are having this Montana trip. It is a very good thing, which is needed to balance the bad things we have to deal with in this life. I'm also glad you will be joining Pix. It will be enormously helpful to her emotional well being to have you there.

As always, if there is anything Brendon or I can do to help you in any way on the local level please don't hesitate.

So much love to you, Pix, and to ND too.

Y'all are pretty great. I'm happy to report that today was a better day.

Dad has been really improving today mentally and physically, and we had some great, honest conversations. Without getting into too many details, I feel like I'm FINALLY making real progress, and we are working together as a team to figure out the best way forward.

For now, we've hired a great local care company to work with him four days a week for six hours a day (we can go up if needed), and he's starting physical therapy at home tomorrow. We are also looking at selling this condo with its two floors and getting into a more manageable single-floor situation. We are avoiding actual assisted living as long as possible because it's always depressing and STUPID expensive.

It's going to be a busy summer, but I feel like I'm getting my dad back to some extent, which is pretty great. (And, yes, I know, this is far from the end of what is always going to be a difficult process that will get harder, but I'll take any win I can get.)

With the progress I've made here and the care I'm getting into place, I'm going to be able to slip away to meet Drew and his birth family in Montana from Thursday to Sunday; I'll then be coming back here to continue working with Dad and see how the caregivers are working out.

I honestly don't know yet how much longer I'll be in Florida after that. A lot will depend on how the caregivers work out (I plan to overlap for a bit) and what happens with possibly selling this condo and moving him to a new one.

But yay. Yay for a better day. Yay for better news.