Well, it's just good to know that when the chips are down and things look grim you'll feed off the girl who loves you to save your own ass!

Xander ,'Chosen'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Volans - Mar 08, 2021 4:57:53 pm PST #4304 of 30000
move out and draw fire

NYT and a couple others say the reaction to the second shot is worse for women than for men, which tracks with what I've observed but raises a LOT of questions about why bodies would react differently. Biology is complex.

Having a mobile injection team that could travel for a house call for such cases would be a blessing, particularly now that there's a vaccine that doesn't have to be specially handled.

A nursing group in the Netherlands (where, universal health care) shifted from making patients come in to having the nurses go to the patients' homes a few years ago, because the nurses chose to make that shift, and the results have been staggeringly great.


msbelle - Mar 08, 2021 5:25:04 pm PST #4305 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Just spoke with my aunt. My uncle probably only has a few days. He is not awake, his breathing is labored and rattling. He is not eating and their living wills request no feeding tubes.

I think they’ve been married over 50 years. They call each other Love. They had trouble getting pregnant, but would take my brother and I for a week some summers. They were the fun aunt and uncle.


-t - Mar 08, 2021 5:26:34 pm PST #4306 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh msbelle. They sound wonderful.


amyparker - Mar 08, 2021 5:36:23 pm PST #4307 of 30000
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

{{{{msbelle}}}}


Jesse - Mar 08, 2021 5:40:11 pm PST #4308 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm so sorry, msbelle.


msbelle - Mar 08, 2021 5:55:27 pm PST #4309 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Whenever I become eligible for the vaccine I am definitely taking a sick day or two afterwards.

And I’m going to take a bereavement day for my uncle and go scream into the void somewhere.


Beverly - Mar 08, 2021 7:07:03 pm PST #4310 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Oh, msbelle, they sound wonderful. And you take whatever time you need--your work will just have to understand.

In NC I worked with a woman who called the grocery chain "Food Dog." Something about a younger relative, the logo, and foo dogs. It wore off on me, and then on H and then on the kids, and then on their friends. We all still call it Food Dog. When H was in Charlotte a couple years ago his brother finally asked, "What's with the Food Dog?" H had to call me to get the history beyond, "Carrie always called it that."


Volans - Mar 08, 2021 7:08:47 pm PST #4311 of 30000
move out and draw fire

{{{msbelle}}}


Maria - Mar 08, 2021 7:46:21 pm PST #4312 of 30000
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Oh msbelle, I'm so sorry.


Vortex - Mar 08, 2021 10:54:33 pm PST #4313 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

trying to decide if I'm annoyed by something. No, I'm annoyed, but not sure if I should be.

For the class I'm teaching, all of the sections of students have the same legal problem. Since there are 5 of us, it makes sense to divide up the work and make sure that they all do the same thing. So, I draft one of the pleadings according to the conversation that we had as a group about a month ago, using X, Y, and Z. I post it on the Teams site, and one of colleagues says "this is really great for X, Y, and Z, but I told my class X, Y, and Q, so I changed the document and will be giving it to my class. I've posted the updated document if anyone else wants to do X, Y, and Q".

first, I am annoyed that she just changed the document. Had it been me, I would have emailed the group and said "Hey, I told my class X, Y, and Q, so I want to make sure that we are on the same page. I can update X, Y, and Z if we are all in agreement"

second, I am annoyed that she took it upon herself to change the game with her class, and now we are inconsistent.

I would also add that I sent the document to the program leader, who signed off on me posting it, so I think that if I had been wrong about X,Y, and Z, she would have said.

Grrrr.