I wear the cheese. It does not wear me.

Cheese Man ,'Chosen'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Feb 24, 2021 10:27:43 am PST #3831 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Especial bummer is the one person who I’m already friends with on fb (we are acquaintances/friends of friends) who I thought we had flirted in the past...she didn’t even mark me as friends apparently!

Maybe she didn't think she needed to because you already are in contact?


-t - Feb 24, 2021 10:28:30 am PST #3832 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Jeez, my workplace is really trying to make Wednesdays as much of a trial as Tuesdays. Do not want.


-t - Feb 24, 2021 10:28:56 am PST #3833 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

brenda makes a good point, meara


Topic!Cindy - Feb 24, 2021 10:48:49 am PST #3834 of 30000
What is even happening?

Thanks, everybody, for your kindness. My nephew is going to be enrolled in a clinical trial and his treatment starts next week. Hodgkin Lymphoma is very treatable, but his is quite advanced.

I sent him the crystalized ginger [link] hard ginger candies [link] and the ginger-pear drops [link] I decided to hold off on the tea until I know whether he even drinks tea. Thank you for the recommendations.

I'd wanted to send him some comfy pajamas or sweats, but was concerned with the weather changing (and night sweats are an issue for him already due to the cancer). I settled on some plain cotton t-shirts with no tags (itching can be a thing with treatment) and some light, moisture-wicking sweatpants. He's dropped a ton of weight, and I remember how much it upset my own son, when he was at the height of his illness, and his clothes were hanging off him.

I sent my s-i-l a couple of things, too. True to form, Amazon split both of their orders right in the places I didn't want them split.


Jesse - Feb 24, 2021 10:54:43 am PST #3835 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Best thoughts to your nephew, Cindy.

Yay for Dana's husband's vax appt!

I should buy that cat bag. That looks HILARIOUS.


Trudy Booth - Feb 24, 2021 11:06:10 am PST #3836 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

So sorry to hear about your nephew, Cindy.

I think the array of gingers will help his tummy and his spirits.


dcp - Feb 24, 2021 11:07:43 am PST #3837 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Cindy, I also found that ginger ale helped - until the chemo changed my taste perception, and ginger ale stopped tasting of ginger and started tasting simultaneously sour and bitter.

I have no idea why the taste of ginger ale changed yet the taste of the ginger candies didn't.

I think it varies both by the individual and the type of chemo involved. So it might not happen to your nephew at all.

I have about a month to go, then I can expect my taste perception to return to normal.


Toddson - Feb 24, 2021 11:09:06 am PST #3838 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Cindy, my sympathy. For what it's worth, my boss had ... a form of leukemia, I think; later he developed cancer. Got treatment for everything and is doing very well now.


Dana - Feb 24, 2021 12:58:24 pm PST #3839 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

HA, I kept at it, and now Husband and I both have vaccine appointments tomorrow morning.


Dana - Feb 24, 2021 12:59:18 pm PST #3840 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

chris, I don't know if you're eligible yet, but HEB's site is the best I've seen in terms of clearly stating how many vaccines they have available at each location. We're having to drive an hour to get to one, but there are several around San Antonio that had availability.