The King of Cups expects a picnic. But this is not his birthday!

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Tom Scola - Apr 20, 2024 2:39:33 pm PDT #29885 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

I feel like I should be doing something more frolicksome than my current state of watching Drag Race clips on YouTube.

Whatever you’re doing, it’s probably better than going out into the Haight today.


meara - Apr 20, 2024 3:51:42 pm PDT #29886 of 30000

I finally did the thing I’ve been putting off! Well, most of it. There’s still some to do but it wasn’t the part that was making me procrastinate it AND making me feel worse the more I procrastinated it. I think it took maybe 10 minutes. Maybe 15. The other part will probably take up to 30 but isn’t nearly so onerous nor is it as pressing.


DavidS - Apr 20, 2024 3:53:19 pm PDT #29887 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Whatever you’re doing, it’s probably better than going out into the Haight today.

That's very true. I'm avoiding it assiduously.


sj - Apr 20, 2024 5:00:52 pm PDT #29888 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

TCG and I had charcuterie for dinner at a restaurant and also cacio e Pepe, after seeing an absolutely heart breaking performance of August Wilson’s Fences.


Laura - Apr 20, 2024 5:24:04 pm PDT #29889 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Clicking update on airline status as my nephew and family didn't take a direct flight here. They landed in Detroit at 8:08, but I don't know how that relates to actually getting to the gate and off the plane. Their departing flight is 8:50. So I'll know soon if they will be here tonight or tomorrow. Run!! Run!!


Steph L. - Apr 20, 2024 5:39:38 pm PDT #29890 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Jesus fucking Christ. Niece's fiance, who's only 26, just found out this week he has follicular lymphoma. What the actual fuck.

Follicular lymphoma is a form of non-Hodgkin's lymphoma, and it's an indolent (slow-growing) cancer. To the point where some patients don't even start any treatment right away, but just have regular tests and plenty of observation, like some men do with prostate cancer. It's often considered a long-term, chronic illness, and about half of the patients with it are still alive at 20 years. But there is no cure, only treatment to manage it.

But Jesus Christ, he's only 26. This is some rough news.


dcp - Apr 20, 2024 5:42:57 pm PDT #29891 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Laura, have you explored either flightarware.com or flightradar24.com? I like to use them to check on flight status and progress for family and friends.

One of the interesting features is "Where is my plane now?" So you can see whether the airplane the flight is scheduled on is on time and en route to the departure airport.


dcp - Apr 20, 2024 5:46:49 pm PDT #29892 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Steph, has he done any genetic testing? Some of the younger guys in my support group discovered they had Lynch syndrome that way, meant their risk for early cancer and multiple types of cancer was greater.


Laura - Apr 20, 2024 5:56:02 pm PDT #29893 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

They ran as fast as they could and got on the plane. Helps that nephew and great nephew both jog. They'll get in around 11:45 tonight. The airport is only about 15 minutes away. They live in Otter Lake, so I am looking forward to the 14 yo seeing Fort Lauderdale beach after midnight on 4/20 during spring break. It won't be boring.

Gorgeous night too. Have all the windows and sliding doors open. I'll close them in their room because they won't be accustomed to the city noise. I can sleep through sirens, racing cars, and revelers who want to share their favorite music, but it is way quieter in the mountains.

I'll check out the app, dcp!


Steph L. - Apr 20, 2024 5:59:08 pm PDT #29894 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Steph, has he done any genetic testing? Some of the younger guys in my support group discovered they had Lynch syndrome that way, meant their risk for early cancer and multiple types of cancer was greater.

Not yet, I don't think. He's a physician's assistant, and his fiancee (our niece) graduates from med school next weekend, and his father is a physician, too, so they have a lot of resources at their fingertips. I'll make sure to ask about genetic testing -- thanks for mentioning it!