Well, we may not have parted on the best of terms. I realize certain words were exchanged. Also, certain... bullets. But that's air through the engine. It's past. We're business people.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Nov 24, 2020 5:22:35 pm PST #287 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yay, fatty lipoma!


Steph L. - Nov 24, 2020 6:09:30 pm PST #288 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

For FSA spending, a little googling has reminded me that sunscreen is a thing. (Also, Amazon has an FSA section of their site, so that's helpful.) (I'm just really determined to spend all of it because I hate leaving money on the table.)


sarameg - Nov 24, 2020 6:19:23 pm PST #289 of 30000

I spent my whole workday up with Misses Ivy & Maple. Miss Maple has only been of the streets since Oct 29& was already weaned. Ivy was taken in at 3 wks with a feral mom, so had more time around humans. And Ivy is fearless, I think partly just by nature, but also just more time. So I hang around Maple, note signs for when she’s had too much. She’s still a purr machine who loves a belly rub, so I think with patience, she won’t be skittish & will be a people cat.


erin_obscure - Nov 24, 2020 6:31:36 pm PST #290 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

A coworker once had an insane amount of FSA $$ at the end of the year and splurged on a bunch of massages and a new mattress. I'm not sure my FSA would cover a mattress....but gosh I wouldn't mind a new one. Orthopedic pillow?


msbelle - Nov 24, 2020 6:46:12 pm PST #291 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Like 10 years ago my brother f’d up his fsa withholdings and I was given giants bags of bandaids and anti-bacterial cream and moleskin and pain killers and Imodium and pepto I still have some of it, I threw out a lot for the move because it was expired. The hsa at my last job did not cover otc stuff at all.


brenda m - Nov 24, 2020 7:00:20 pm PST #292 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I did like msbelle’s brother one year. Everyone in the family got cold meds and painkillers and heat pads. I also got several humidifiers (penguins!) which proved useful over the years.


Steph L. - Nov 24, 2020 7:01:49 pm PST #293 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I would totally get a massage if we weren't in a pandemic. I'm a little too paranoid about that.

Orthopedic pillow?

Heyyyyyyy. That's a good idea!


Steph L. - Nov 24, 2020 7:05:51 pm PST #294 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Yeah, Tim withheld kind of a high amount for his FSA and then didn't use it (I think he was assuming he would use it for some of his heart surgery expenses, and he did on the day of surgery, because he paid a $500 deposit), and some might roll over to next year, but there still might be a large amount just hanging around.


DavidS - Nov 24, 2020 7:10:23 pm PST #295 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Can't you use your FSA on fancy glasses frames that exceed your regularly scheduled amount?

Fancy orthopedic pillows or side sleeper pillows or weighted blankets all sound like good solutions too.


Steph L. - Nov 24, 2020 7:15:37 pm PST #296 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Can't you use your FSA on fancy glasses frames that exceed your regularly scheduled amount?

Yeah, glasses are top of the list for both of us. I'm just looking at other stuff, because I suspect there might be a lot of $ left in the FSA account. Tim withheld kind of a large amount. (He changed that for 2021.)