Everybody plays each other. That's all anybody ever does. We play parts.

Saffron ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Calli - Jan 19, 2024 3:23:35 pm PST #28112 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad someone finally got back with you, Susan. And I hope the biopsy shows it to be nothing much.

Great swim trunks, Laura!

I’m sorry about the work woes, smonster.

I’m trying to decide if I want to stay with my book group. I’ve been in it for decades, and a couple of other long timers are friends. But a number of people in the group are immunocompromised, so we’ve switched to being entirely on Zoom. Which I support—yay tech solutions! But I am so zoomed out. I work remotely, and there are days when I have six zoom meetings, each an hour or more long. I don’t want to log back on a couple of hours later to stare at a zoom screen again. I mentioned that the amount of zoom that day had my eyes hurting at last night’s meeting, and there were chirpy suggestions about cutting down my work zoom time. Did I mention that most people in the book group are retired? Yeah, if I’m cutting zoom time it’s not going to be with my paying gig.


erikaj - Jan 19, 2024 3:39:59 pm PST #28113 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Totally get this, Calli. Would it be too disruptive to see them for. I don't know, every third book or something?(I've been in some low-key ones where you could do that, and some that are too "Roberts.y" for lack of a better expression.)


Karl - Jan 19, 2024 3:53:49 pm PST #28114 of 30000
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Susan, is this your Dylan? [link]


Jesse - Jan 19, 2024 4:21:02 pm PST #28115 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ugh, Susan, I hate this thing where they send you the raw results before you can get them interpreted. We are not experts in these things! I'm glad folks got back to you and am hoping for the best.


Susan W. - Jan 19, 2024 4:27:56 pm PST #28116 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Susan, is this your Dylan?

It is indeed!

Ultrasound/biopsy appointment made...for Feb. 1. Which feels like a long time to wait--certainly too long for a regimen of nothing but junk food and comfort rereads in the interim--but I guess it is what it is.


Laura - Jan 19, 2024 5:22:17 pm PST #28117 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I prescribe junk food and comfort rereads as needed for the interim. I'm really glad you got to speak to some knowledgeable. Keep reminding yourself that the expert says that it is mostly likely either a false alarm or something caught very early. Be gentle with yourself.


brenda m - Jan 19, 2024 5:41:34 pm PST #28118 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Susan, so hopeful that this turns out to be a whole lot of nothing.

When I was being treated for PE blood clots/anemia etc a few years ago, they sent me to see a hematologist, and nobody mentioned that this guy‘s practice was out of the Rush University Cancer Center. I got off the elevator at the floor they told me, saw all the signage and just about lost my shit. I think most people in medical capacities like this are genuinely trying to be sensitive, but sometimes they really miss the little things that can set off a chain of panic.

Laura, that picture is delightful. I saw it earlier, but I had forgotten the context of the bathing suit.

He insisted on eating outside and had the sliding glass door in his room to sleep, and when he is up he is on the balcony. Generally getting as much warm air as he can before going back to snow next week.

100% me anywhere vaguely tropical.


EpicTangent - Jan 19, 2024 6:05:39 pm PST #28119 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Susan, I know that Feb 1 sounds like a long time, and once "The Big C" is brought up everything is ten times scarier. But really, Feb 1 is less than 2 weeks away. You got this. And you got us. (And you got permission to apply junk food as needed in the interim).

smonster, I really hope that a solution to the issues you're having with your workplace presents itself very soon.


dcp - Jan 19, 2024 6:07:34 pm PST #28120 of 30000
I have grown older, but not up.

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Calli - Jan 19, 2024 6:28:19 pm PST #28121 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Erikaj, I’ve sort of been doing 2 out of 3 for the past year, what with other commitments, travel, COVID, etc. I could probably get by cutting it to half. I would like to stay in touch with some of them.