I'm at the gate waiting to board. It's just a really complicated situation with his dog and his current roommate/part time caregiver and the state of the house. I'm trying to figure out if I can hire someone to come morning and night on the days James is working to just make sure he eats and takes his meds. It's looking like he didn't eat or take meds regularly for three days, so that's why he's there.

Oh, I missed your post, Pix. I'm so sorry. It's so hard. Good luck getting it sorted out.

Oh, Pix, I’m so sorry. My Dad is an only child who had to take care of his aging parents from just halfway across the country and it was such a stressful time (and he was also a teacher). Much love and strength to you. And easy travels.

Oh Pix. I'm so sorry. May things can go as well as they can.

We are going to get a cleaning service sometime this year. Mr. Loomycakes knows this is non-negotiable.

It looks like it may be kidney disease. His values are super low. I'm in flight now. The good news is that this may be the cause of the vertigo and everything, so it would be an actual diagnosis. They are admitting him. The doctor is in with him now and Dad's friend Ralph is there, so he will tell me more later. Long distance medical communication is the worst.

Fingers crossed for your dad. And you!

Timelies all!

Happy birthday Amyparker!

Much ~ma for your dad, Pix.

Many happy returns of the day, amyparker!

Happy birthday to Amyparker!

Pix, I hope it’s something easily treatable. This is so hard on you, and him, and ND.

It has a positive impact on my life and psyche and ability to keep the place together during the in between weeks at a super fundamental level.

Literally the only thing I miss about my last roommate is that I paid her $45/month to do my half of the cleaning. I have got to find room for a cleaner in my budget.

Thanks for the good wishes. My fever hasn’t come back, so that’s good. I had that very American thought of “I should have gone in today” but then changing my sheets wore me out and I’ve lost my voice, so no.

I put on fake nails and finally watched John Wick 1 and folded some clothes. My friend’s husband dropped me off food, super yay on that. Trying to nibble away slowly at all the stuff that has me overwhelmed.

Tomorrow I plan to do some budget work. I have to get that sorted, because until then the safest thing to do is shut down spending entirely and I can only do that so long before I snap and impulse buy some shit. I am, at least, trying to steer my buying towards things that will truly improve my life, like custom arch supports and a posture bra.

Oh, and holiday cards. I still haven’t sent any. That’s on the list, too.

In Florida. Dad is doing okay so far after being admitted to the hospital and having a ton of tests. I've checked in on him (got to the hospital 5 minutes before visiting hours ended), picked up his car so I have wheels, and am now flopped with a glass of wine at Chez Laura (newly negative for Covid!) and DH, who are the best and most gracious hosts on short notice. I will know more when I talk to the doctor tomorrow morning during rounds.

I am reading everyone's posts and nodding and will meara once I have the spoons. Love this community.