That is an unfortunate way to go out

Skipping (sorry!) to poke my head and assure y'all we're still as OK as possible here.

It's Hanukkah now (started on Thursday afternoon, and we'll light candles every day until this Thursday afternoon), and it's quite strange to try to be festive - let alone, feel festive - in such difficult and troubled times.

I have to admit I find myself choked up trying to sing out loud the lyrics to some of Hanukkah's songs, talking about the hardships that were put upon the Jewish people through the generations. However, there's one line that keeps resonating with me, and I can't help but feel how well it describes these times - 'each one of us is a little light, but all of us together are a strong and steady light'.

So I make it a point to look for these little lights, these acts of grace and compassion and kindness. I feel that they're so deeply needed, so I try to actively look for them (oh, and if at all possible, I wish and hope that I can also actually do a tiny bit of that myself, for others). And that's what this Hanukkah is, for me.

Hope you are, too, as well as possible, and lots of ~ma for all good things, all around. This place, and each of you, is way more than just-a-little light, for me. Thank you.

Ursula Vernon/T. Kingfisher used to do a lot of art for the furry community, so even though I don’t think she is a member, she’s very furry-adjacent, and it shows in her reblogs.

AHA - yes, that's likely why I'm seeing those recs.

Happy birthday Suela!

Nilly! Sorry this is such a rough holiday season for you(and yours) I am having a "case of the mondays" because I didn't sleep well last night(Sometimes I think my body wants to make me crazy!) This week seems like it will be arduous already(In very routine ways that are nothing to worry about. social worker appointment and the booster I've been putting off, but who wants any of that? Is it any wonder that I go around #blessed all the time? Real life should have a short-term fast-forward or something, I swear.)

I whipped through the new Paladin (Paladin's Faith), so I had to go back and go through the previous three. They hold up on re-reading.

Edit: This was meant to go in Literary. It's Monday. sigh

Hey y’all. Chag sameach to Nilly and Shir and any others who celebrate. I put mine out but haven’t lit any candles yet. Hoping to get some latkes somewhere this week.

Boss is on office duty for two weeks due to surgery, so we have a colleague down from Michigan to help out.

Looks like I may not be going to NC for Xmas - my dad is thinking of asking us not to come, which is sad but probably for the best. My sister currently refuses to be in the same room with me, and my mom was the driving force behind most of the Christmas stuff.

I just inhaled a salad and had already had a chicken and rice bowl. Why for still hungry?

So I make it a point to look for these little lights, these acts of grace and compassion and kindness. I feel that they're so deeply needed, so I try to actively look for them (oh, and if at all possible, I wish and hope that I can also actually do a tiny bit of that myself, for others). And that's what this Hanukkah is, for me.

Nilly speaks for me in this. Nilly and Shir and all the lovely Jewish folks here: chag sameach and may you also find bits of joy and love and courage during the holiday. Shir, in particular your posts about wanting a future that includes everyone give me hope for that future; your courage bolsters my own.

I don't post much these days, but you folks are very important to me. Please continue to take care of yourselves and each other.

I know I've said this a lot(or maybe just thought it and meant to say it a lot) What Karl said. And I say that as somebody with a rep for courage that she mostly doesn't deserve, even though "The hardest thing in this world is living in it," or however that quote goes. Maybe you still haven't had what you are craving, smonster. That happens to me sometimes(and not just about stuff that should end up in Bitches for content.)

One of my coworkers at the library is the wife of the Rabbi and she brought in a dreidel and gelt for the book club for disabled adults today, and they apparently had a great deal of fun! So there is some light in my little world for Hannukah.