I like the ruffles.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Dec 08, 2023 12:49:13 pm PST #27290 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Honestly, I'm (still!) the most active on Tumblr.

It me.

I'm scarce on Facebook because of family crap. I fell back into fannishness near the beginning of the year, and wound up back on Tumblr, which has worked out what with the whole Facebook avoiding.


-t - Dec 08, 2023 1:07:07 pm PST #27291 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I do feel like tumblr is my natural home but I never go there either. I'm just generally bad at the socials.


JenP - Dec 08, 2023 1:55:55 pm PST #27292 of 30000

Congrats, flea (yay, raise!), and I hope the commute works out OK -- indeed, nothing like escaping bad management, as noted.

I still am basically only on FB. I have an Instagram. I never got into Twitter. I just made my first TikTok posts, because my dog looks cute with the Grinch filter, but mostly there, I just watch the stuff my friend, Dave, sends to me via text links. It's not my thing.

Here is my thing. Contained social!


Laura - Dec 08, 2023 4:34:45 pm PST #27293 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Well, this is a long time with no posts. Everything ok?

I have been out training staff the last couple of days, so I haven't been on my computer. It sucks not to have social windows open alongside my work windows. I'm accustomed to doing other things while waiting for processes.

I’m tired and had a migraine overnight

May your head allow you to have an enjoyable weekend.

I'm quite happy that cold weather has arrived in SF.

Here too! Although only for a couple days. But I got to wear long pants and a long sleeve shirt and it was super delightful. The low tonight is going to be 74, so not exactly chilly, but I can open the windows! It was 60 this morning so I had windows open all night. It is noisy on A1A, but it doesn't bother me.

Oh no, ceramics class shouldn't be stressful!

So true!! I hope a resolution can be reached.

I am not not in the holiday spirit, but I don't have the motivation to put the tree up this year.

I am completely not in the holiday spirit. Haven't done balcony lights or put the tree up. It is a combination of being so busy, and why bother when I am not having any holiday gatherings here. I've always done it, but this year we are going to another relative's house. Which is good because I shouldn't have to do it all the time, but bad because I have no incentive to be festive. I did it for decades because I had the kids and it was easier.

My plan had been to leave and go elsewhere for Christmas. A cruise, or some destination, maybe visit my girlfriend in Vegas. Just get away. But work and basketball have conspired against me. So, blah. I also haven't done anything about gifts for anyone because shopping is my least favorite thing. When I see something one of my loved ones is in need of I get it for them, no matter the time of year.

I just sent in a signed offer letter and will be leaving my library for one 45 minutes away but with (I hope) better management AND I managed a big raise out of it.

That's wonderful, flea! I hope that the bureaucracy isn't as burdensome and that your management is sane and competent.

By the time I hit post there may be more to edit, or not.

Is anyone doing some fun stuff this weekend?

eta:

Here is my thing. Contained social!

Same. I go on Facebook for my family stuff and here to socialize. It would spread myself too thin to do Insta or Z or whatever. Only so many hours in the day.

etaa:

While I am blathering, had myself a pity party because this week because Stephen would have been 70, but he only made it to 32. It would have been lovely to have grown old with him as was the plan. I certainly think of him often, but particularly on his birthday.


Cass - Dec 08, 2023 6:19:40 pm PST #27294 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Here is my thing. Contained social!

This is my speed.

We had a wee-ish but quite jolt-y earthquake a few hours ago. Only a 3.3 magnitude but very local. Hello plate tectonics.


Laura - Dec 08, 2023 7:26:46 pm PST #27295 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Still have never had the whole earth moving under my feet thing. Except when walking over a shaky subway. Not sure how I would feel about it.


Cass - Dec 08, 2023 8:01:01 pm PST #27296 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Let Joshua Tree say shaky hellos from afar, Laura. You can keep the scary water things.

I grew up with this, but today was still startling. Sometimes the mild earthquakes can be confused with the local military base training on heavy artillery. Not this one. The boom was deep.


Calli - Dec 09, 2023 5:15:07 am PST #27297 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Sorry about the ceramics class, Hec. Is there a nearby ceramics group that would let Matilda rent a kiln?

Yesterday I had a full day of socializing with coworkers. I like them, and the department bought food and drink, but I’m not used to that much people. So I kinda crashed with the cats last night.

I’m on Bluesky, and if there are still people needing invitations I have a few. Hit me up. I’m following some of my favorite writers there. Ursula Vernon/T. Kingfisher used to do a lot of art for the furry community, so even though I don’t think she is a member, she’s very furry-adjacent, and it shows in her reblogs. I’ve followed a few who post interesting political and legal content. But yeah, I’m mostly there for the authors.

A party I was going to tonight was canceled (yay!) due to the hosts’s health problems (boo), so I have nothing social I have to do until a Doctor Who gathering Sunday evening. I’m hoping to finish up holiday cards and shopping, and then spend the rest of the time reading with a cat on my lap. In between Marske, Wells, and Kingfisher all releasing books within, like, a week of each other, I’m overwhelmed with texty goodness.


Steph L. - Dec 09, 2023 6:42:05 am PST #27298 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

In between Marske, Wells, and Kingfisher all releasing books

I stopped reading A Power Unbound last week because I don't want it to be over! But I'll probably finish it this weekend. So good!


erikaj - Dec 09, 2023 10:12:27 am PST #27299 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

I have been pretty promiscuous about socials, but it's kind of my job too. But there are some things that work better on phones than desktops that I can't use as much.