I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

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Cashmere - Oct 29, 2023 7:43:30 pm PDT #26498 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Well, fuck. My brother's back on meth and having delusions. He got kicked out of his apartment because of the drugs. He's in a hotel right now but I'm not sure if he'll get the help he needs. It's been a little over a year since he got out of jail. He's in Texas, where he was staying with the young man we helped raise and who considers Joe his dad. The poor guy is doing the right thing but my heart is breaking right now.

You know when you've dealt with severe mental illness for a long time that it's quiet periods punctuated by chaos, disaster, or grief. And you just pray that the quiet periods last a little longer than the other shit.


Cass - Oct 29, 2023 7:54:24 pm PDT #26499 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

You know when you've dealt with severe mental illness for a long time that it's quiet periods punctuated by chaos, disaster, or grief. And you just pray that the quiet periods last a little longer than the other shit.

My sister just got her one year clean from meth (third times the charm) and alcohol. It's a struggle.

Her daughter is being released from treatment from severe eating disorder and self-harm. Not because she's better. I assume either she is showing no improvements after two months of residential treatment or insurance won't pay more. Either way, it's horrible.

I hope your brother is willing to get help soon. I know that despair.


meara - Oct 29, 2023 9:15:03 pm PDT #26500 of 30000

Oh geez Cash. I remember prior stories about your brother. So sorry he’s back on the struggle.


Shir - Oct 30, 2023 12:33:08 am PDT #26501 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Cash, I am sorry. May you all get a long quiet period soon. {{{}}}}


Laura - Oct 30, 2023 5:56:22 am PDT #26502 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm so sorry, Cash and Cass. Being there for loved ones with severe mental health issues and addictions is in many ways more difficult than tackling them yourself. I hope they get the help they need to get back and stay on track. So painful.


lisah - Oct 30, 2023 7:04:25 am PDT #26503 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I’m so sorry, Cash and Cass.


Cashmere - Oct 30, 2023 10:20:38 am PDT #26504 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Cass, I hope she’s okay. We’ve danced that dance as well.

Joe did voluntarily commit himself today. That’s a huge relief.


Laura - Oct 30, 2023 10:49:22 am PDT #26505 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

That is a relief, Cash.


JenP - Oct 30, 2023 11:54:45 am PDT #26506 of 30000

Oh, that is a relief, Cash.

Cass, I'm sorry. Wishing the best here.


erikaj - Oct 30, 2023 12:16:58 pm PDT #26507 of 30000
I'm a fucking amazing catch!--Fiona Gallagher, Shameless(US)

Best wishes for your brother, Cash.