...burning baby fish swimming all round your head.

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 27, 2023 11:32:17 am PDT #24499 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I am wanting a “like” button, Javachik.


javachik - Aug 27, 2023 11:37:59 am PDT #24500 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I’m glad it resonates.

Laura, I had that as my tag for a long time at the other place. (DriveWeSaid, which is a site where lots of different old Table Talk threads found a home - I think 20+ years ago?)


Beverly - Aug 27, 2023 12:13:36 pm PDT #24501 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

DWS is about the same age as b.org, structured very much like TT was. And there are a lot of names familiar from TT, and also from FB there. I think we post in different threads, Javachik, as, well as I'm mostly a lurker there.


beekaytee - Aug 27, 2023 12:14:29 pm PDT #24502 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

I've run out of words. If I could, I would sit with you quietly. Not just David and JZ, not just Pix, all of you.
Our wings are not tired, David and JZ.

Much better words than I could find.

I wrote something last night about being 'the net, the tether, the lift and the love.'

But no combination of my own letters is sufficient.


javachik - Aug 27, 2023 12:25:57 pm PDT #24503 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I think we post in different threads, Javachik, as, well as I'm mostly a lurker there.

Oh I’ve seen a lot of your posts there over the years - but I’m definitely 95% lurker there these days. It took me a long time to figure out it was you! I’m mainly in the Coffee Shop because that’s who I was posting with circa 1995 on TT. But I was in and out of a lot of threads on TT, just never Buffy ones because I didn’t watch that show until I met alla youse!


Beverly - Aug 27, 2023 12:52:11 pm PDT #24504 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I followed the TT cats people over to DWS, and then followed them to other threads. I've subsided to lurking mostly, except in a few threads.


NoiseDesign - Aug 27, 2023 1:57:47 pm PDT #24505 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I love that sentiment. Our wings are not tired.


Sheryl - Aug 27, 2023 3:21:00 pm PDT #24506 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Hugs for all who want/need them.


Dana - Aug 27, 2023 3:54:01 pm PDT #24507 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

A whine:

I got a migraine on Friday afternoon. I have no abortants that work other than steroids. My doctor's office has an acute headache clinic, which is open 9-4 on weekdays. I usually wait at least a day to see if it goes away on its own, because steroids have side effects and most doctors are pretty wary of using them frequently. (With good reason. If I had an abortant that worked instead, I would take it.)

Saturday, still have headache. Called to see if I could talk to someone on call. They say don't leave a message unless it's an emergency. I decide to go to urgent care, where I have gotten IV cocktails several times in the past. Since last time I was there, they've cut way back on what they're willing to prescribe. (With good reason. The word "necrosis" was used.) The NP said she'd check with the doctor about the steroid. Success. They will give me a steroid and saline. Normally you get IV benadryl, which they won't do anymore because of heart side effects. Normally you get toradol, which is an NSAID that does nothing for me as far as I know. Maybe it helps in combination with the steroid, but it's hard to say.

So I get the steroid IV. I could theoretically get a 7-day oral steroid course, which I am generally fine with, but I'm off to DragonCon on Wednesday, and I don't want to have to juggle multiple pills a day. Also, steroids lower your immune system, so I have a faint hope that getting a big dose once is better than small doses over seven days.

For me, a side effect of steroids is difficulty sleeping. Last time, IIRC, no problem. Other times, I've been up until around 3 but managed a decent amount of sleep. Last night, I lay in bed until 4:30, got up, did a bunch of work (*), and went back up around 10 and slept for 2 hours.

  • This of course has to coincide with the busiest I've ever been at my job. I was already planning on working most of the weekend, and I couldn't do anything from Friday afternoon through this morning. At 4:30.

I am making ice cream to help my feelings. Time to go back to work.


Beverly - Aug 27, 2023 4:00:12 pm PDT #24508 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

(Pats Dana's poor head, very gently)