One of the more weird things I have been doing recently is participating on two discords with old TWOPers. I know there was overlap, but at the time I thought of us as the “nice” people and they were the mean ones. It was honestly the true crime connection with javachik that led me to join. I will just share that Sarah D. Bunting herself walked me through how to post to Discord. They were just huge at the time and couldn’t be nice or self moderated and now it feels like a happy family even though I was mostly a lurker on TWOP(except for the Cooking Shows thread which got really out of hand off topic, and I am off-topic queen)
River ,'War Stories'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Today was a wonderful gathering of all of our love, and I'm of course also reminded of a similar gathering we had with amyth. I don't think our culture has a convenient word for these gatherings (yet?) but this has become one of my most precious rituals. All the outpouring of love and memory and grief-mixed-with-sweetness and so, so much support in all directions that's always the best part of a really solid funeral (no offense to the priests and rabbis and prescribed words and whatnot) -- but while the person is there to witness and receive it.
I'd say "more of this" but of course I don't want more of y'all dying -- I just want more of this absolutely blessed knowledge that -- for once -- we've had a moment to express all that love, fully cognizant of the context that we're in, and drawn by the need to be there for and with each other.
We could do it to celebrate other occasions, too.
Timelies all!
I’m really sorry I couldn’t be there. Another downside of being at the hotel instead of our house is that there is no privacy, no place I could sneak off to for the Zoom. All of my love to you and your family, JZ.
I'm sorry that we had an obligation that required us to drop out early. It was so beautiful to see everyone and feel all the love. So happy that Matilda was able to join us.
What day did the first F2F happen? We could celebrate We Aren't Axe Murderers Day.
Where is that "Like" button?
What day did the first F2F happen? We could celebrate We Aren't Axe Murderers Day.
My pictures are dated May 17, 2002. Sounds about right.
September 17 is when we first started posting on the Phoenix Board.
(This year it's Rosh Hashana, or I would've offered here and now to host a Zoom during it)
The first F2F was May 17.
[Edit: x-posted with Laura. Of course.]
I am glad you didn't give up on us prickly weird territorial defensive twerps, which many of us were during that period of time. Total virtual village NIMBYs, some of us, as I call myself out.
I am so glad, too, Plei. Glad and grateful.
It is remarkable, how the community has evolved through all the laughs, celebrations, losses, evolutions and aspirations. Our lives are so rich together.