I'm so sorry, but if it makes you feel any better, my fun-time-Buffy party night involved watching a robot throw Spike through a window, so if you want to trade... no wait, I wouldn't give up that memory for anything.

Buffy ,'Get It Done'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Atropa - Aug 17, 2023 11:48:41 am PDT #24056 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

The Vampiric Council and the Eldergoth Council also support this ruling: JZ is the best.


JZ - Aug 17, 2023 12:23:20 pm PDT #24057 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Hospice nurse reports it will be less than a month. I'm weirdly relieved to have a timeline.


Laura - Aug 17, 2023 12:29:22 pm PDT #24058 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Given the choice of sudden or knowing in advance I would choose knowing in advance. There is a certain comfort to having the opportunity to express your love and say goodbye. Ya know, and delete your search history. Also, it is an opportunity for those of us at a distance to tell you how much you mean to us. I love you Jacqueline, and I wish you didn't have to be going through any of this. You have brought countless smiles to this face.


Beverly - Aug 17, 2023 12:33:22 pm PDT #24059 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I haven't been very vocal, for that I apologize. But I'm here in the midst of community and sending all comfort and loving vibes I can summon in the direction of the Zmayhem, all.


javachik - Aug 17, 2023 1:12:50 pm PDT #24060 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

JZ, I hope every single day we are lucky enough to still have your presence also brings you a sense of pleasure.

Also, it's great to see everyone chiming in about how great you are, because remember when I visited you right after your diagnosis last year - and you denied that you were the best? You actually argued with me and insisted on naming at least 5 other Buffistas who were somehow better people? Now, I know it's not a competition, but even so, you really are the bestest. I am glad you're getting the chance to soak up all of our love and admiration.

And yeah, listen, I'll admit I've cranked about David being an over-sharer in the past! But let me go on the record that I am currently grateful for that abundance of detail he likes to provide. JZ would probably want to share it herself, but her fingers can't keep up like David's can.


Cass - Aug 17, 2023 1:19:22 pm PDT #24061 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

JZ, I hope every single day we are lucky enough to still have your presence also brings you a sense of pleasure.

Yes.


P.M. Marc - Aug 17, 2023 1:36:04 pm PDT #24062 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

You are totes and also magotes the bestest! Even if apparently, one of the many indignities of terminal illness is that you can’t even type out your thoughts!


P.M. Marc - Aug 17, 2023 1:38:16 pm PDT #24063 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I don’t know, Grape-Nuts, why I am stuck on that can’t type out thoughts part, except that maybe I process so much stuff by writing that being unable to process the biggest, most final thing without struggling to type or write it seems just the very cherry on top of the sundae of suck.


Nilly - Aug 17, 2023 1:40:28 pm PDT #24064 of 30000
Swouncing

Yup.

Polgara! Oh, how wonderful to see even those few little letters from you!

and you denied that you were the best?

Only the really really best would do that!


Java cat - Aug 17, 2023 1:53:08 pm PDT #24065 of 30000
Not javachik

Everyone has said it so well, so I'm just echoing: yes, yes, yes, and love, love, love to you Jacqueline and David.