Sir? I'd like you to take the helm, please. I need this man to tear all my clothes off.

Zoe ,'Serenity'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Aug 13, 2023 9:14:15 am PDT #23842 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

ltc’s family party was yesterday. So, her birthday season is officially over, and I am peopled out. So, I don’t plan on getting off the couch today.


DavidS - Aug 13, 2023 9:47:17 am PDT #23843 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Kate, I have to thank you for popping in here and talking about Our Flag Means Death and how it reignited your fandom love. Because it did the same for Jacqueline, and got her to write for the first time in many years. And that has been a great joy to her, reclaiming her creative self.

Writing Fanfic and going back and doing RenFaire last fall were both extremely important to her.

I don't think anything really makes her happier than getting a comment on her stories at AO3.


Susan W. - Aug 13, 2023 10:00:01 am PDT #23844 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I don't think anything really makes her happier than getting a comment on her stories at AO3.

This is a good reminder to always comment on a story you love, even and maybe especially when it's a story that's been out for months or even years. It's such a small thing that will bring such huge joy to the writer.

I lit a candle for JZ in church this morning. I know that's the smallest of gestures, but for me it was focusing my love and grief into a tiny point of flame in the eyes of God and the universe.


DavidS - Aug 13, 2023 10:09:46 am PDT #23845 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I lit a candle for JZ in church this morning. I know that's the smallest of gestures, but for me it was focusing my love and grief into a tiny point of flame in the eyes of God and the universe.

Thank you.

Jacqueline's pastor at her new church came by the other day and they had a great discussion. JZ left the Catholic Church last year after the asshole Archbishop of San Francisco refused to give communion to Nancy Pelosi. So she's found a truly welcoming place at the legendary (in San Francisco circles anyway) Evangelical Lutheran Church of St. Francis at the edge of the Castro.

This was a church that was dropped from the national charter in the 70s because they accepted gay and trans parishioners. And they ministered to many during the height of the AIDS crisis.

But Pastor Bea is a little German woman who writes the most beautiful homilies focused on the essence of Christ's message - accept all with love, tend to those who need it, honor those who do the good work in the world. She was so open and gentle with Jacqueline's fears when she visited yesterday, letting the conversation flow and acknowledging the difficulty and the absurdity of facing your own death.

All the services are live streamed on YouTube and Jacqueline's mother has also become a convert (also leaving the Catholic Church) at age 80.


Laura - Aug 13, 2023 10:14:50 am PDT #23846 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It is wonderful that Jacqueline has found the new church. I know that her faith is important to her and it surely caused great distress when the Catholic Archbishop made that church impossible to attend. I'm grateful for Pastor Bea fulfilling what is their most important role, giving comfort to their parishioners.


msbelle - Aug 13, 2023 10:17:54 am PDT #23847 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

So in the admin section here how do you reset passwords? I went in to users, then manage on the user account and hit the enter or submit without changing anything. Is that it?


Susan W. - Aug 13, 2023 10:20:29 am PDT #23848 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Pastor Bea sounds wonderful, and I'm glad she was able to visit Jacqueline and provide such good comfort and support.


Laura - Aug 13, 2023 10:44:38 am PDT #23849 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

msbelle, I didn't find a way in there to reset. It looks like the user has to go to the login screen and request a reset.


DavidS - Aug 13, 2023 10:48:52 am PDT #23850 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

It looks like the user has to go to the login screen and request a reset.

I'll get that started from her end.

Here's the live stream of JZ's church. Her brother and mother are there and will be on video asking those in the parish to pray for Jacqueline: [link]


askye - Aug 13, 2023 10:56:22 am PDT #23851 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Pastor Bea sounds awesome. I'm glad that JZ found a church that has been a good home.