And we live to fight another day.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Aug 03, 2023 1:50:00 pm PDT #23475 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

ION, Jacqueline ate an English muffin tuna melt for lunch and it stayed down!

Two for two on meals today!

Matilda cheerleading all the way, "Good job, Mommy!"


dcp - Aug 03, 2023 1:51:48 pm PDT #23476 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Keep in mind that palliative care and hospice care are two separate things.

I hope that the next few weeks gives you all time to recover your strength and energy and balance.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 03, 2023 1:55:27 pm PDT #23477 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Indeed, being made pain-free and comfortable is a blessing whether or not one is pursuing further treatment options.

All my love to you, JZ and David.


erikaj - Aug 03, 2023 2:45:44 pm PDT #23478 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

I don't know what I would do. I do know that sometimes people like me wouldn't get all the the choices because of assumptions(In my view, both right and wrong,) about how tough our life already is.(and a bunch of other crap related to money and productivity and such that brings me down more than thinking about tumors, and definitely contributes to the Assumption thing.) I sometimes feel that I have time on this planet I don't deserve, so I feel guilty that I'm not some kind of Phenom that makes the most of every instant. I feel guilty that I can't say that I wouldn't change a thing, love my life, and am eager to fight for every day(That seems like the Good Disability Rights Activist answer, in addition to my wishing it was 100 percent true, but I lie enough in other places...it helps me not to do it now!) I hope this isn't like when I ruin people's online medieval theme park fantasies with my reality.(it's not as fun for me, I should note)


erikaj - Aug 03, 2023 3:04:01 pm PDT #23479 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

And this isn't really what we do, but {{{Hecubus}}} I'm sorry you had to tell everyone by yourself, but she's lucky she has you to do it.


amych - Aug 03, 2023 3:37:12 pm PDT #23480 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I'll be over here rooting for every batch of eggs you can possibly produce, and I don't even eat eggs.


-t - Aug 03, 2023 7:18:18 pm PDT #23481 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Two for two on meals today!

Matilda cheerleading all the way, "Good job, Mommy!"

Awwww, warm fuzzies for me


JenP - Aug 04, 2023 7:23:13 am PDT #23482 of 30000

I just RSVPd to my niece's wedding using a QR code. Truly, we live in the future.


Steph L. - Aug 04, 2023 7:24:55 am PDT #23483 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I just talked to Tim, and he kept repeating how tired he was, how he just couldn't keep his eyes open, etc., and I said "Well 2 surgeries in 1 week will take it out of you," and then he muttered "I think it might be the dilaudid they just gave me." Gee, you THINK? I didn't laugh at him, but it was a near thing. I'm laughing now.

I'm taking the opportunity to do laundry and such today, but I will go over around dinnertime today to see him. Murderbiscuit is so confused and keeps giving me accusing looks that basically say "What have you done with Papa? Where have you hidden him?" And I tell him "Papa will be home soon," but he doesn't speak English, so he remains confused.


Sparky1 - Aug 04, 2023 7:50:19 am PDT #23484 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

And I tell him "Papa will be home soon," but he doesn't speak English, so he remains confused.

My mother would point out the blame is in the wrong place, and he remains confused because you do not speak cat. (My mother always takes the side of the pets - see, also, "the dog needs more room" in the car, on the bed . . .)

Rainy day in Maine.