I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!

Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Jul 08, 2023 8:21:15 pm PDT #23051 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

We're back from seeing Asteroid City at a theater that was all decked out for Instagrammable Asteroid City pix. (Which we took.)

So the last two weeks (since the previous infusion) have been very rough on Jacqueline's GI system. Much diarrhea and vomiting. A new record, as it were.

We had talked with our oncologist about lowering the chemo dose to give her body a break, and he was good with that choice. We're maintaining the dosage of the study drug.

We've also made an adjustment to her eating earlier before we take the study drug instead of eating after the study meds.

The upshot of both of these adjustment is that her tummy has been better and she's had more appetite.

Which is good because she lost a notable amount of weight over the last two weeks, so now we have a strategy going ahead to try to eat more regularly and put some weight on.

Also, she had more energy today than typically after an infusion. She went out to brunch with me, we had some time poolside (she mostly napping in the shade) and we went to a movie.

That's a pretty active day for her.

Cancer care = infinite adjustments.


Consuela - Jul 08, 2023 8:25:11 pm PDT #23052 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

That's a pretty active day for her.

That sounds like a lot for any Sunday!

We walked past Tartine today but it was busy and there were no seats; I would like to get lunch there at some point.

Tonight I learned that frozen rhubarb curd is pretty close to ice cream.


meara - Jul 08, 2023 8:43:49 pm PDT #23053 of 30000

Mmm, rhubarb curd aid so good. Never tried frozen.

Was it that Barbenheimer thing he posted yesterday?

It was indeed!


DavidS - Jul 09, 2023 7:22:46 am PDT #23054 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Bon jour (as Room service greets us here). We're packing up and awaiting breakfast.

Hoping everything goes smoothly on the return today.


JenP - Jul 09, 2023 7:44:39 am PDT #23055 of 30000

Smooth return travels, Zmayhems. Good vibes for the adjustments doing as hoped.

I went to backyard karaoke party last night

I've been thinking of doing this at our place! What were your thoughts? Anything you particularly liked or did not about the whole deal? Like, "Make sure to..." or something?


Consuela - Jul 09, 2023 8:16:48 am PDT #23056 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

First clafouti of the summer in the oven. (Paging megan walker: yes, I did pit the cherries! :D)


lisah - Jul 09, 2023 8:26:26 am PDT #23057 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I’m making my first 2023 clafoutis later today!


DavidS - Jul 09, 2023 8:59:46 am PDT #23058 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Marks calendar: Clafoutis-Fest 2023!!


DavidS - Jul 09, 2023 2:42:55 pm PDT #23059 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Done with the hospital and killing time at the hotel lobby before we head to the airport.

JZ is so tired and we won’t be walking in the door at home until 8pm or so.


Sheryl - Jul 09, 2023 3:39:47 pm PDT #23060 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Had a short home visit with Mr. S this weekend. Insurance won't allow more than 72 hours of home visit time in a seven day period, so we couldn't pick him up until Sat. morning, and we just brought him back. Had the usual can't/won't go to sleep issue, but it was resolved quietly, and the rest of the time was fine.