Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - May 27, 2023 9:19:09 am PDT #22410 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

We're in the market for new outdoor furniture after the winter storms capriciously lifted our glass topped table by the umbrella and smashed it down to the ground with a good littering of broken glass everywhere.

That exact thing happened to me last year!


meara - May 27, 2023 9:46:24 am PDT #22411 of 30000

That sounds like an excellent day!

Mom had her CT scan this morning, and the plan is she’ll call me when the docs come to discuss. But who knows when that’ll be—probably in a few hours when it’s halftime at the soccer game I’m going to and I can’t find a quiet space. But if I stay home they won’t call til after the game I’m sure. Fingers crossed the news is not horrific.


DavidS - May 27, 2023 9:55:28 am PDT #22412 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

That exact thing happened to me last year!

These storms hate glass topped tables! I'm leaning towards one of those cool looking triangular awnings this time.

Fingers crossed the news is not horrific.

How well I know this scan-xiety! All phalanges crossed.


brenda m - May 27, 2023 10:37:27 am PDT #22413 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Pulling hard for your mom meara.


Sheryl - May 27, 2023 11:59:21 am PDT #22414 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I’m sorry meara.

Yay for good progress, JZ!

We’re here at Balticon. Mr. S is here for the day. Seems a bit restless, not sure what he wants to do.


NoiseDesign - May 27, 2023 12:01:17 pm PDT #22415 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

It's a gray day in LA but the sun should come out in the afternoon. We've already scuttled off to the French bakery and are back in our room with treats.

It is a bit of a dreary day here today. It was chilly and gray when I dropped K off at LAX this morning. I'm striking production on Kinky Boots tonight starting at 11pm and that's going to be a chilly evening.


meara - May 27, 2023 12:12:22 pm PDT #22416 of 30000

Well, scan is basically as feared—big pancreatic tumor, big liver mets, lymph nodes etc. they’ll do a biopsy soon to see what kind but it’s inoperable and very not good. :( they did seem like treatment rather than “don’t bother” but….we shall see.


DebetEsse - May 27, 2023 12:28:34 pm PDT #22417 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Oof, Meara. I'm sorry


Calli - May 27, 2023 12:40:56 pm PDT #22418 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Fuck cancer.


dcp - May 27, 2023 12:49:21 pm PDT #22419 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Well, scan is basically as feared

Ugh. Oh, dear. Some big QoL decisions coming up. I'm sorry I don't have any useful advice.