No, it's shiny! I like to meet new people. They've all got stories...

Kaylee ,'Serenity'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Calli - May 19, 2023 12:16:38 pm PDT #22290 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm glad Symptoms Management Doctors are a thing (although it's unfortunate that they're needed).

I broke some wee plastic thingy off my coffee maker Wednesday night, and rendered it unusable. I ordered a new one that looks like it might use my old carafe, as it would be nice to be able to have one in the washing machine and one awaiting the morning brew. But it's going to be Sunday before it arrives. Until then I'm using my French press. A process that is charming on a lazy Saturday morning is less so early on a work day when I'm too rushed and sleep deprived to be pouring boiling water around. Still, as life woes go, it's pretty minimal.


dcp - May 19, 2023 12:46:42 pm PDT #22291 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Symptoms Management Doctor

At our first meeting, my oncologist introduced herself as "...and a palliative care specialist." It was quite a shock, because the only context I had for the term "palliative care" was hospice. I remember thinking, "I didn't think it was that bad!" and desperately tried to keep my expression neutral. I have since learned the distinction between palliative care and hospice care.

My team at the cancer center is the oncologist, the PA, their coordinating nurse, the clinical trial coordinator, and the scheduler. It has been amazing (and reassuring) to see how smoothly they all work together. The coordinating nurse is effectively the master sergeant -- whatever needs to happen, she sees it gets done.


-t - May 19, 2023 2:10:49 pm PDT #22292 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm glad Symptoms Management Doctors are a thing (although it's unfortunate that they're needed).

Yup, this.

Way to go, Todd! That is no mean feat, navigating those waters. My dad had to get his congresscritter involved to get his straightened out back when he was first eligible. Congrats!

I ran out of instant coffee this morning and I haven't decided how I'm going to deal with the whole caffeine intake question. The days I go into the office I drink their coffee, and many days I forget to have any coffee, so it's not an urgent question. I may be entirely out of foodstuffs, though (other than my emergency protein shakes) so there probably ought to be grocery shopping in my near future.


Sue - May 19, 2023 3:45:47 pm PDT #22293 of 30000
hip deep in pie

Meara, here's a book to look out for in 2024: [link]


meara - May 19, 2023 7:56:58 pm PDT #22294 of 30000

Thanks Sue that’s perfect!


JZ - May 20, 2023 7:42:12 am PDT #22295 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

"...and a palliative care specialist."

I had the exact same quiet freakout, dcp. Maybe they should hand out a vocabulary sheet at check-in!


brenda m - May 20, 2023 10:05:24 am PDT #22296 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Yup. My dad too, a few years back at the VA. They throw that word around way too casually given how vaguely understood it is.


Sheryl - May 21, 2023 2:40:16 pm PDT #22297 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

We had another home visit with Mr. S. It was a little shorter, as we went to the Gaithersburg Book Festival in the morning, then drove up after lunch to get him. No running off this time, but we still have a lot of difficulty getting him to go to bed. I just don't know what his issue is with bedtime...


erikaj - May 21, 2023 4:05:03 pm PDT #22298 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

I never looked forward to it, either, but I had a little brother to get in stupid fights with(and limited capacity to bolt) so it's different.


Matt the Bruins fan - May 21, 2023 7:08:30 pm PDT #22299 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Ah, the feeling of looking directly out the window as your motion-triggered floodlight turns on, and seeing nothing moving at all.

Plans to watch horror movie tonight now abandoned.